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Re: How you doin ? MidnightBlue

Posted by LlurpsieNoodle on January 11, 2008, at 17:57:12

In reply to Re: How you doin ? LlurpsieNoodle, posted by MidnightBlue on January 11, 2008, at 14:52:28

> LL a couple of "generic" questions. Don't answer if you don't want to.
>
> Do you live near his folks, your folks, or near no folks? Do you feel safe in this location? Do you feel you are building a support system there? I know you haven't lived there long.

no folks. our friends are intertwined, most of them are (related to) his colleagues at work. he's a lot more social than I am.
>
> How long have you been married? And have the "rules" changed since you first got married? By that I mean one wants kids now the other doesn't, one thought cultural differences was no big thing now it is?

been married 6 years. rules haven't changed dramatically. we still have the same priorities, except that I changed my career path after I graduated. that kinda threw a wrench in his grand scheme of things.
>
> Why no counseling? Is he afraid that is "your turf" because of your degree? Really just trying to be helpful and help you sort this out.
>

h took a BIG step. I will detail below in my other thread. the themes are merging on these two threads. ffunny huh?


> The old married lady,
>
> MidnightBlue
>
> P.S. all marriages hit rough patches

yep. my t said that his style was to wait it out and see if things get better or get worse.

-Ll

p.s. you're not old, but maybe you've been married a while. that much I grant you!


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