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Re: My life sucks + I'm a loser **Trigger**

Posted by seldomseen on January 11, 2008, at 8:16:12

In reply to My life sucks + I'm a loser **Trigger**, posted by TherapyGirl on January 11, 2008, at 6:49:09

I hear ya. Maybe we could pick each other?

Early in my 20's I was engaged. About a month before the wedding, well, we didn't make it. He was married 8 months later to another person.

However, the single most devastating break up I ever had was with a guy who said he loved me a lot, dumped me later and that was that. I told myself he didn't want to go where this relationship was obviously going. Didn't want to marry etc... HE was married less than 6 months after we broke up.

I'm not going to say "Oh, don't worry, your guy will come along". I've heard that enough myself and I don't know if it is true or not. In fact, I'm beginning to doubt it.

It's all so incredibly disappointing.

From your posts I think you are an amazing person. (Read Larry Hoover's post again - he really is an insightful guy).

Texas, I think men will come and go based on their own agendas, preferences, emotional issues etc... I'm not even sure it has that much to do with US. Yeah, sure we can look at the men we date, why we date them and can do this and that, but it's mostly out of our control.

We are who we are and what I'm working on is realizing that IS enough.

You'll get up again, you'll likely date again (hope springs eternal you know)and until you do, I'll be thinking about you and sending good thoughts your way.

You're Texaschic. You're fine.





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