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Re: my former T :( :( :( LONG Dory

Posted by susan47 on November 24, 2007, at 2:58:05

In reply to my former T :( :( :( LONG, posted by Dory on November 12, 2007, at 14:56:32

He Cannot hear your deepest fears and see your deepest pain .. or something like that .. because he has ears doesn't mean he hears with them. Because he has eyes .. you get the picture. The best thing you can do for yourself is get Angry with him. He probably did let you down, there is no doubt he makes mistakes and you may be one of the patients he has let down. Sometimes these things happen (**I suspect they happen one hell of a lot more often than is ever reported, or even suspected .. I suspect it should be regulated much more strictly than it is, in fact, this issue of patient trust, and therapist competence, or ability, or experience, or whatever the Hell you wish to label it**) .. and when they do, there is always, Always more than one Victim.
Get angry, if you can't heal any other way, then just give yourself permission to be Royally f*ck*ng Pissed about the whole thing.
There is no use pretending he didn't know what was going on.
There is no use pretending that you might win his love with your Loyalty .. there is no use in pretending any Damn Thing at all.
Just be on your own f*ck*ng side, because no one else will do that as well as you will.


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