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Re: wasting time in therapy and my Nerves and Frustrat seldomseen

Posted by RealMe on November 7, 2007, at 23:53:02

In reply to Re: wasting time in therapy and my Nerves and Frustrat, posted by seldomseen on November 7, 2007, at 13:25:34

I agree with seldomseen. So does my T. There is nothing talked about in therapy that is a waste of time. I said the same thing on Tuesday that I felt last week the sessions were wasted on talking about my husband locking himself away in the guest bedroom whenever I was home as he was upset with me--it lasted for a whole week. I was ready to download the no contest divorce papers and tell him to sign on the dotted line, that I had had it. He finally came out after I asked him was he going to stay in there for forever. I did not apologize for getting upset with him earlier. T said don't apologize. You did nothing wrong, and it will only lead to cycliing back into the same type of thing again where I accept responsibility for being "the bad guy." First time he was ever directive with me. So, when I consider it now with some distance, I guess it was not a waste of time. Nothing is.

RealMe


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