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Re: Blurting

Posted by muffled on October 30, 2007, at 23:33:09

In reply to Blurting, posted by DAisym on October 30, 2007, at 19:04:30

From my email to T the other day:

"And another thing, is why we didn't say much(at T), and was blanking, is that ALOT was said in(previous) e-mail, or SOMEone did, and so now we waiting , watching, to see what you you react......
Testing, trying to trust, apparently it never ends..."

I been bolder and bolder bout saying stuff to my T bout things she does that parts of me don't like. And she apologises (which irrationally makes me feel bad cuz I made her feel bad...). Like the other day she said a triggering word to me. Today she was talking and waving her hands too close. I tell her in emails. I tell her stuff and she is Ok w/it. Proly your T will be too.
I think its a self preservation thing to keep testing our T's. And if it helps us to be safer, then maybe its OK then. Maybe you can give that part prmission to test as needed so that it can feel safe?
Hope this is OK.




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