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RE: Blocking myself for a week RealMe

Posted by Dory on September 9, 2007, at 17:31:45

In reply to RE: Blocking myself for a week, posted by RealMe on September 9, 2007, at 14:08:19

i won't push you, sometimes a self-ban is needed. i ought to know. But i hope you read these messages to you anyway, and think about what we are saying. Honore and Daisy have good points. i know witty pretty well, and i can't speak for her either, but i read the post she wrote and i don't think she was saying what you think. When i read it i got from it that yes, she felt triggered, but she wasn't accusing or complaining or anything... i think she was just examining it and relating that triggered feeling to what you had said.

you asked me if my upset at my T's mistake reflected my own fear of making a mistake... could it be now that your fear of hurting people somehow or being hypersensitive about certain issues may be causing you to read her post a particular way?

what you feel is what you feel, no right or wrong. i won't tell you not to feel this way, but please don't be hard on yourself. Neither you nor witty did anything wrong.

i am very sorry that you are hurting.


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