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Re: Muffled and anyone.... crap continued RealMe

Posted by Dory on September 9, 2007, at 17:26:36

In reply to Re: Muffled and anyone.... crap continued Dory, posted by RealMe on September 8, 2007, at 23:59:45

you are so right. mistakes? me? no, not allowed. Not saying they don't happen, just that it's a violation of my being to make one. i am destroyed easily by making a mistake. i am currently struggling with a crisis situation... one that is important for sure, but it needn't be the torture i am making it... and all because i am afraid of making a mistake. No amount of telling myself it's ok makes any difference.

a life without mistakes. sounds really incredibly stupid. Cannot be done and yet i cling to it. i tolerate mistakes in others and forgive quickly... i can get knocked off my feet for a bit but i come around and forgive quickly, and often then find a way to make it my mistake and not theirs. With my T... well, i have already moved into the "my fault" stage. He made a decision i don't agree with, but i feel ultimately responsible for it. i caused all of those events to unfold.


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