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Re: the odd two? 10derheart

Posted by Dory on September 6, 2007, at 8:46:47

In reply to Ok, I'll be the odd one out (long), posted by 10derheart on September 5, 2007, at 23:58:41

talking to him about "us" is easier for me too.
i push it there a lot...
wanting to dissect what he meant
or what the connection is or should be
it's a mix
talking about "the process"
vs talking about the relationship

i called him on the terms used
he kept making this hand motion
and saying "this"
i said he had to say
the relationship
because i knew better
than to think that word had a bigger meaning.
i knew it didn't mean anything romantic

now i don't think about it
unless i am alone
it used to be in my brain
now i don't care about him so much
walled that off
it doesn't exist
what doesn't exist doesn't come to mind
unless i am alone

he said i tested him a lot
questioned the relationship a lot
that was easy to do
easier than i think he thought it would be for me
life is too short
silence makes it shorter




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