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Re: ((Realme))sorry it sucked, but ya I 'get' it

Posted by widget on September 6, 2007, at 7:30:27

In reply to ((Realme))sorry it sucked, but ya I 'get' it (nm) RealMe, posted by muffled on September 5, 2007, at 23:48:04

It sounds painful but was it really wasted? You touched some close to the core stuff and of course you would be triggered. I hope your therapist assured you you hadn't wasted the session. Could you talk more about your feelings around this whole thing on Friday? You gave me such good advice about talking to my therapist and it was very fruitful. I had misunderstood him. This led him to tell much more about his "boundary" issues, in depth, more personal than I have ever heard from him. I have you to thank for that. Remember, you told me to write it all down? Well, he was an hour late(!) and I wrote for an hour. I did help organize my thoughts. I was tempted to pull out my tablet but it seemed like I would be initiating a note taking contest with him always jotting into my file and consulting the file. I know, silly. But, didn't matter. I think you were seriously touched in sensitive places and maybe he doesn't get it. But, then, I wasn't there. You are great with you advice and I thank you for it. Good luck! Oh, maybe you could write him a short note explaining how he had inadvertantly triggered such misery. Sometimes, I have to write down a scary sentence in order to talk about it (and then show him, of course!) Thinking of you....


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