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?????????????????????? DAisym

Posted by muffled on September 5, 2007, at 23:43:11

In reply to Re: Magic Moment - it was fleeting - trigger, posted by DAisym on September 5, 2007, at 22:39:28

I have been kinda avoiding this thread...
Its really is kinda cool though.
Anyhow, from previos post,

>After many other things he finally said, "I think when we get close, you get scared. It all gets mixed up for you, feeling close feels good, which then feels dangerous. You can't sort it all out, so you just run from it. I think I'd be mad at me too for the confusion. But I won't hurt you, I promised I wouldn't intentionally hurt you."

*My T has said something almost identical to me. Its nice to see that your T is clear on *intentionally*.

>But seriously - I really do want advice on how to hang on to the good, connected feeling. How do you just allow it?

*Sigh...that I don't know....thats why I was avoiding this thread...I'm not 'there' yet. I am too afraid.
I admire you achieving what you have. Its amazing. A testimony to both of you guys perseverence.
I was thinking, you write so beautifully of your T experience...mebbe thats fodder for a book? I dunno.
So the line that caught me was "how do you just allow it", cuz I can't even allow it. I am not allowed.
Maybe if someone knows how to just allow it, it will give me a clue how to do it in the first place.
It does make me very angry with myself for being so ridiculous.
I got no excuses.
Thats why I say I am an idiot(and people say no your not...)
Anyhow, nuff bout me, I just wanted to thank you for a beautiful, hopeful thread.
Thx, take care,
(hey tell your T muffled says HI!!!!)




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