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Re: Struggling with the concept of Need DAisym

Posted by LadyBug on June 26, 2007, at 21:35:15

In reply to Struggling with the concept of Need, posted by DAisym on June 26, 2007, at 19:34:31

I want to reply because I love what you wrote and it makes so much sense to me and it's some of what I feel.
I told my T today that our work is ending in the way that we know it. It makes me sad, this move came out of the blue as of 10 days ago. I'm not ready for not seeing her as much as I have. Calling her when I'm about to burst and hoping she can see me that day.

So I know it hurts! It just does. Do we choose to do things that hurt? Not in a million years. In therapy we have to look at the things that hurt us the most and then we have to work with a T that we come to need so much. We all realize that we have to say good bye someday. Look at me, it's taken me 10 years to decide and be brave enough to leave my husband of 23 years. It's so hard yet I know it's time for me to start over. I think therapy could be the same, I will know what feels right when it comes to ending it. I just don't want to end it and my marriage at the same time.

Daisym you are amazing to me.
You have such strength and a wealth of knowledge within yourself. I've learned a lot from you. I know what it feels like to hurt inside. I always seem to be hurting and have most of my life.

Thanks for sharing what you did.
LadyBug

 

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