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Re: please be sensitive kerria

Posted by Dr. Bob on November 13, 2006, at 23:39:01

In reply to Re: Kerria Fallsfall, posted by kerria on November 12, 2006, at 15:39:37

> i hate when i switch to some parts - especially that part- i don't realize that it happened untill later and i can't remember of control what i'm doing when i'm in that part.
>
> i already hate that i have this disorder. It's killed all my relationships.
>
> i know that my parts are polorized- i hate being them already. i can't stand to live with myself- i can't hear any more criticism for any reason- i already hear too much inside.
>
> i'm so so so tired of having everything be a such a nightmare and a terrible struggle.

I'm sorry it's rough for you right now. It sounds like you feel hurt and unloved. Expressing that with I-statements like the above is fine.

> the person that realized the transference could care less- she doesn't care that she hurt me ... She didn't like me i guess
>
> No one cares about me - they think i deserved it
>
> all these people that attacked me

But please be sensitive to the feelings of others (such as those who use other sites). You-statements like the above can be problematic.

But please don't take this personally, this doesn't mean I don't like you or think you're a bad person.

If you or others have questions about this or about posting policies in general, or are interested in alternative ways of expressing yourself, please first see the FAQ:

http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#civil
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#enforce

Follow-ups regarding these issues should be redirected to Psycho-Babble Administration. They, as well as replies to the above posts, should of course themselves be civil.

Thanks,

Bob


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