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Re: More about loving Dr. Bob Deneb

Posted by Poet on February 25, 2006, at 11:44:07

In reply to More about loving Dr. Bob, posted by Deneb on February 24, 2006, at 22:18:38

Hi Deneb,

<<Is it bad to love Dr. Bob? Is it abnormal and creepy? Should I stop doing something that makes me feel good? Is loving Dr. Bob harmful? I'm not obsessed with him or anything, at least not to the point of interfering with my life.

It's not bad to love someone.

It's only abnormal and creepy if the obsession interfers not only with your life, but with his. In other words that the *love* you are feeling for him causes you to try to make him feel the same way about you.

I think you do love him, but much of it is because you have made him the ideal person. You don't really know him and so you can imagine him to be things that he might not be. He's human, he has faults, but your image of Dr. Bob won't include them.

I think the only way you will know if your infatutation will be greater or less is when you meet him. I have met him, but I can't say what you will feel when you do. I definitely don't love him, but I will admit he is cute ;)

I think Racer made many good points in her post. Think about them. Okay?

Poet

 

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