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Talking about transference to your husband/SO?

Posted by orchid on October 19, 2005, at 16:36:06

I would like to know if any of you has ever successfully explained transference issues and your attraction to your T to your husband / Significant Other.

What was their reaction? Were they able to understand it?

I have been thinking recently that one of these days I would really like to let my husband know what happened with my first T. And explain everything to him, including why I felt the way I did. I have been very open to him about everything other than the problem with my first T (though he knows about it little bit) and my dad.

But I am wondering if he would be able to understand. Or if it will backfire.

Before I didn't mind even a divorce. But now I have started liking him. Maybe even quite a bit. IT will be hard to take if it leads to serious issues. But on the other hand, keeping it like a secret also feels bad. I would like to explain everything to him and make him understand. But it seems to be too risky also.

Any ideas/suggestions?




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