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Re: I don't feel the same way Dinah

Posted by alexandra_k on October 16, 2005, at 22:21:19

In reply to I don't feel the same way, posted by Dinah on October 16, 2005, at 21:43:38

> I don't know. I just don't feel the same way about him now.

i think that is pretty understandable under the circumstances.

> I don't know how fair that is.

i'm not sure that it is a matter of fairness...
and i do think...
that it is okay.
really.
it isn't dishonouring him or disrespecting him
it doesn't have to negate what you had
(which will always be a memory and can still be a source of strength)

> I don't want to lose the connection or feel differently about him.

> But I do.

I just want you to know...
That I really do think that it is okay that you are.
It is okay
It is understandable

And you don't have to lose the sense of connection.

i remember one of my past therapists really well.
sometimes i just need to remember her and all those connected and loving feelings come back.

she is still with me.

and she is with me just the way she used to be
just the way i liked / needed

:-)

 

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