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Re: fear of intimacy alexandra_k

Posted by Damos on October 14, 2005, at 3:55:09

In reply to Re: fear of intimacy, posted by alexandra_k on October 13, 2005, at 20:52:44

> grieving... grieving... when does the grieving stop?
>
> and why...
>
> why can't i just dissociate from it if i'm supposed to be so damned good at that?
>
> i don't understand.
>
> i need to put this away
> i need to function
> i've been a real mess this week
> :-(
>
> how do i put it away?????

Honestly, I'm not sure it really ever does. I think other things come along that take your focus of it and let it settle to the back of your mind. If you're lucky a new connection/bond/love/attachment comes along that makes the pain and sence of loss seem less severe. But every now and then something will set it off and it'll come to the front of mind again. I really struggle with making sense of the loss of connections. It's hard. Wish I could help.

Feeling for you.

 

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