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Re: Almost left a message for my T , but couldn't

Posted by fairywings on August 26, 2005, at 8:30:35

In reply to Re: Almost left a message for my T , but couldn't happyflower, posted by daisym on August 25, 2005, at 19:53:09

Hi Happy,
When Daisy said:
>
> But as I continued to read and you said, "I thought I was almost done" I could see where things might feel more relaxed and yet you worry more about how much you like him and how attached you are. Because if you like him too much and have to stop seeing him, termination will be that much harder. When you talk about shying away from him, it sounds like you are doing that today because of the phone call. But in sessions you are still open and honest and working hard. Maybe your psyche is telling you that the safety and boundaries of the office are very important to you. And since it has felt different since you started seeing him at the gym, that safety might be more shaken than you think. I could be all wet too..."


I agree with her, it makes so much sense. It's scary to think about a relationship ending, the finality of it.

fairywings


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