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Re: feeling totally frusterated! Poet

Posted by happyflower on June 13, 2005, at 22:26:43

In reply to Re: feeling totally frusterated! happyflower, posted by Poet on June 13, 2005, at 21:29:28

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> Isn't therapy supposed to be frustrating? Though I think I frustrate my therapist more than she frustrates me, so scratch that question.
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I know I frusterate my T sometimes, thats why he calls me challanging, lol But he says I am rewarding to work with, so I see it as a compliment.

> Maybe your therapist was trying to get you to talk about why you are so critical. What's behind it?

> I think you are right. My husband said he had a lot of balls telling me that! I told him what my husband said and he laughed and said oh, so your husband see it too? I told him I am glad he told me because most people are not that honest and I never had any guideness from my parents. He told me he had to earn brownie points before he told me. I guess I will never totally figure him out.

> I am my own worst critic. My T constantly tells me that I am too hard on myself. It sounds like you might be hard on yourself, too.

> You know I think you have something here, I think I am the most critical of myself, not just other people.

> I think being critical is something to work through, not around.
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You are right once again, but how do you NOT be critical when almost everything in your life turns for the worse?


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