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cognitive psychology?help me please

Posted by happyflower on May 24, 2005, at 13:42:54

What role does transference play in cognitive psychology? My T says this is the type of therapy he uses but what does it mean really? It doesn't seem like he wants transference, he says he doesn't want me to put him on a pedestal. But today he said he thought I was very critical of him. But really I think the best of him and really like him. But really I try to push him away, when I feel I am getting too close to him. People that I have got close to in my past life always disapointed me. So he said he understands now why I SEEM critical, when really I am scared to getting too attached to him. I want to push him away so he doesn't push me away first. We are going to talk more next session, but what do you all think? What should I do? How do I make friends if I push them away by being what seems as being critical of them? My T says he likes that I am honest, so talk about mixed messages. Help! It was a very good and honest session today. I didn't realize I seemed critical of him when actually I like him and think he has helped me so much. Why do I do this? Why am I misunderstood? My mind is spinning! What do you all think?




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