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Nightmares about my ex T - transference?

Posted by pinkeye on May 23, 2005, at 15:06:14

Yesterday I wrote an email after sometime to my ex T again.

And I started having nightmares.. Yesterday night I woke up at 4 and started crying in the bathroom again.

Part of me deeply associates my exT with my dad. I was so scared of his anger yesterday night.. I was really scared like he would shout at me, or reply and use extremely cruel words or tell me he hated me etc.

And I think it is complete trasnsference from my dad. I used to be so very afraid of my dad when I was young.. pretty much the only thing I remember from childhood so much is fear about my dad. Fear that he would be angry with me, that he would not like me, that he would hate me.. And I am projecting it onto my ex T big time.

PArt of me relates on a more adult level with my exT, but a part of me still thinks I am a child. And such a scared child. I have cried 4 times since yesterday already.




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