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Unconsciously encouraging the dependence

Posted by Susan47 on February 11, 2005, at 1:23:54

In reply to Re: i suck at therapy, posted by Susan47 on February 7, 2005, at 16:53:18

This thread is where I spoke my mind about what my ex-T was doing. He allowed me to make all these phone calls because I believe he couldn't cope with my feelings. I used the telephone because unconsciously I knew that. He allowed the telephone use because it got him out of having to face my feelings with me. Yes, and he would never have to self-disclose anything that might make him uncomfortable. He was protecting himself, the schmuck. That is why he never ever ever mentioned the phone calls during any session, if it was brought up it was by me. Oh, yes, I think he mentioned them once. No, I believe I brought it up first. Oh man. Mair, are you reading? This stuff all will help answer your questions, hello. Even if I'm completely wrong, I'm still half right.




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