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Re: What about PB pushes your buttons? Joslynn

Posted by gardenergirl on January 18, 2005, at 18:20:49

In reply to Re: What about PB pushes your buttons?, posted by Joslynn on January 18, 2005, at 9:36:09

>I thought there was a third person and I apologize if I don't remember this correctly.

I think there was a poster named Jadah who had a similar experience, but was not currently involvd with her T. I could be remembering it wrong, though.

> > This is going to be my last post on this board, because for one thing, I am obviously just making posters feel criticized and not Ts, and two, I really do need to stay off the internet at work because we are entering the busy period.

I just needed to comment here, because "making people feel" something is kind of a hot button phrase for me. We can't make people feel anything that they do not already have a smidgeon of inside. If there is nothing there, then indifference would be the response, not whatever we "made them feel". Does this make sense? It seems like you were posting your opinion on this issue, one that you are not unique in. Because it goes against Fallen's stated behavior, it may appear to be critical of her, but it really, IMO, is critical of the act, especially on the part of the T. I've never noticed you posting anything critical or mean about a poster. You seem to be good at separating behavior from the person. I like that about you. :)

Also, in your next post you stated : I really never meant to hurt people or make people feel like they were in junior high school.

I just wanted to reassure you that I was not thinking of you when I posted that about Jr. High. I'm beginning to regret saying that, cause I'm not prepared to offer more details. Best to keep it to myself.

Shoot, sometimes I think we ought to close this thread. Its kind of loaded.

gg

 

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