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Re: whining messadivoce

Posted by lonelygal on January 17, 2005, at 18:41:10

In reply to Re: whining lonelygal, posted by messadivoce on January 17, 2005, at 13:58:33

i think that's very good advice to just let it suck... i think by it sucking so much, i know that i really trusted my ex-t and cared about her a lot... but in the same way, if it ever stops hurting does that mean i don't care anymore or that i dont' miss her. right now my cynical side is starting to pop in and say "jeez, you shoudln't be missing her in the first place". i dunno, this is so hard, and illogical, and it just sucks.

> Please feel free to whine!! God knows I've done my share on this board myself. I understand the bit about the new T. Kind of an overwhelming process you have to start again, I know!!!
>
> I have had well meaning friends tell me to just "get over it and move on with my life" in reference to my old T, and I guess what I've come to realize is, if something's going to suck, then you just have to let it. I don't know if that helps you, but it helps me be at peace with my whininess.


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