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Re: About freezing

Posted by B2chica on July 8, 2004, at 16:15:44

In reply to About freezing B2chica, posted by gardenergirl on July 8, 2004, at 15:59:29

Thanks GG.

>>I freeze, too. It really, really bugs me. I think it is tied up in always wanting to be a "good little girl". A good girl wouldn't fight back certainly. She wants to be loved, and part of her still wants that love from whoever is threatening her, so she wouldn't flee.

-i was Certainly raised that i Must be a "good little girl" and listen to my caregivers.

>>Freezing is a way to try not to be noticed. And to pretend, in a way perhaps, that it is not happening.

I remember that i would pretend it wasn't happening. i would close my eyes and hear a song in my head knowing it would be over soon. Music saved me. I think that's why i have such a deep connection with it now. it takes me away, it helps me, it always has.

Thank you for your kind words GG.




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