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Re: Why do they do this to me? Pandabear

Posted by Crooked Heart on February 22, 2004, at 14:56:03

In reply to Re: Why do they do this to me?, posted by Pandabear on February 22, 2004, at 8:56:23

Panda, do you think you might be able to begin to talk to your t about how difficult this is? Maybe you could start by telling her about how having this target set for you has made things so much more difficult? (I'm calling it a target, not a boundary on purpose. Boundaries in therapy are necessary and a good thing, but a note like the one you sent your t isn't a big boundary-crossing. This thing about not getting in touch with your t, even though she'd said it was alright, if I understand correctly what you've said before, well it just sounds a bit arbitrary to me.)

I agree with what Raindancer said. Forbidden fruit looks sweetest (but I don't see why this particular fruit should be so forbidden).

I wish I could write you the sort of insightful and helpful post we see on this board, but I can tell you that the real you is valuable and lovable and has nothing to be ashamed of.

Will be thinking about you ((((((Panda))))))


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