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Posted by mystic on October 10, 2004, at 10:26:53
In reply to Redirected Lexaproers, posted by jlynne on March 13, 2004, at 1:31:16
Hey everyone what is up with all the negative on here ....I hate coming on in the morning and someone is leaving or someone has negative comments...This is not how it is supposed to be..We are supposed to be here to support and to help...Bridetobe changed to newwife and now there is a comment about wife being a four letter word...she needs to be proud to be a wife that is a very special thing..Sometimes marriages work and sometimes they dont but they do take a lot of hard work..Newwife is saying she is not going to post anymore because of a reprimand from Dr. Bob..I'm not sure what that is all about but I know that I have been on that list from Dr. bob more than once...I'm not sure if it was taken out of context or what but I do know that we are on a public board and he monitors these things and there are some hot subjects that sometimes can be taken out of the things that we say even though they are not hot subjects for us and we dont really think that we would be hurting anyone..I dont know know what the case was..But do not want to see Newwife leave because of it...
I used to love coming on here and we were a close group...I love to come on and see that jlynne has come back to let us help her and for her to help us..It makes me very happy i love to hear what is going on with her and her ups and downs (well not really enjoy hearing about her downs) but she knows were to go when she needed help with her new med...I look forward to hearing how her day is going...Lexy I loved hearing how her life was going through all her triumps and moves and adjusting to her new life with barrett and now going it without meds...I look forward to hearing how she is doing after having a bad friday and worry as we havnt heard from her...I miss Mags and her stories of school and how she is doing...I love hearing from Mrs C. who has always been here for every single one of us to help us through even when she wasnt feeling the greatest sometimes just hearing from her would make my day go a little better...I love hearing from lynda who still checks the post from time to time but has been extremely busy lately...I loved hearing about bridetobe wedding plans and the excitement that she shared with us..and the strength that she had after such a terrible accident and how she pulled herself up and thinking how very strong she is to have done that and successfully had the day of her dreams..I loved hearing Anakins stories of her wedding and her beloved aunt who made it for her special day and then her sharing with us the loss of her aunt..I remember her telling us how her day at school went with her crazy kids hahha..not funny at the time...I still miss Emily as she left some time ago because she wasnt getting what she needed on the posts...Trucker I loved hearing of how you were doing when you were feeling better and joking with us all..I miss K who we havent heard from in some time...Partlycloudy used to check in every now and then...Anxious well you know how I feel about you..you have been a great great friend to me and I'm happy that we met and you have been a great listener to everyone on this board at one time or another...we will be friends forever...I so appoligize if I have forgotten anyone as I have written this post twice i lost the first one....
I guess maybe this post has run its course but I will be here in case anyone needs me and I just cant stand the negativity..we all have things we have to deal with but for a few minutes each day to come together and help support each other without all the negativity is great after all we do live with enough of that in our everyday lives...I just want everyone to know how special that they are and how much they have changed my life in a positive way that is the way i want it to be...positive..I pray for everyone every day and hope that we all find that special freedom from our depression/anxiety and our lives continue to improve..Take care my friends and have a great day...Your friend Mystic
Posted by mystic on October 10, 2004, at 10:42:08
In reply to Redirected Lexaproers, posted by jlynne on March 13, 2004, at 1:31:16
Hey you two of course I couldnt forget about you...I had just written that twice and it was long long long...so I miss you simus...I know that you arent feeling well and I'm sorry if I hurt you in anyway...I miss you and you have given so much to the group you are really missed...Please come back and let us help you or just take care of yourself as you are such a special person...thanks for everything you have done to help me...Susilala...we dont hear from you very often i do on my own but you are missed in the posts always and thank you for all your help and understanding...Hope you are having fun with the new little grandaughter...sorry you two were not on the first one....Luvya Your friend Mystic
Posted by newwife on October 10, 2004, at 11:56:22
In reply to RE:: Hey everyone, posted by mystic on October 10, 2004, at 10:26:53
i dont understand truckers message to me, but it does not sit right with me. i am taking it like a put down and that is the last thing i need right now. i am pretty upset mystic.
Posted by partlycloudy on October 10, 2004, at 11:57:16
In reply to RE:: Simus and Susilala, posted by mystic on October 10, 2004, at 10:42:08
Did you get my yahoo mail? About why I wasn't emailing? About my breakdown at work?
Just curious.
pc
Posted by mystic on October 10, 2004, at 12:00:02
In reply to Hey Mystic, posted by partlycloudy on October 10, 2004, at 11:57:16
No I didnt get an e-mail from you in a while..wrote to you last week...Sorry...I wasnt sure if you showed up on this board thought it was just the other one didnt mean to leave you out..You know that I care about you and what is going on with you..!!!...so please let me know I didnt get an e-mail this week i double checked..take care my friend your friend mystic
Posted by partlycloudy on October 10, 2004, at 12:09:09
In reply to RE:: Partlycloudy, posted by mystic on October 10, 2004, at 12:00:02
Now you know why I was taking this personally!! My yahoo must be messed up - I sent out many emails last week and none of them have been answered... but not returned either.
I had a major problem at work last Thursday with a quick and strong mood swing. Went home crying, stayed home Friday. Saw the doctor as an emergency, Upped the effexor to 225mg, but guess what the problem is- it's hormones. I have the whole sorry tale on yahoo in my outbox. Basically I just said that I have been so very depressed and I felt that every time I email you all I do is whine, which I thought was pretty pathetic. I didn't want to keep giving you my sad and sorry news.
When I get to work tomorrow I'll send it from my work email (my email address there has my name in it).
Posted by partlycloudy on October 10, 2004, at 12:19:09
In reply to RE:: Partlycloudy » mystic, posted by partlycloudy on October 10, 2004, at 12:09:09
Posted by mystic on October 10, 2004, at 15:47:41
In reply to Mystic, I will gmail you. (nm), posted by partlycloudy on October 10, 2004, at 12:19:09
Please dont ever feel that you are pathetic...you are fine and we will talk later and you can talk to me anytime you want...day or night ok...take care of yourself..Your freind Mystic
Posted by trucker on October 10, 2004, at 17:19:36
In reply to RE:: Hey everyone-mystic, posted by newwife on October 10, 2004, at 11:56:22
WHAT I MEANT WAS I LIKED NEW BRIDE BETTER!!!!!
trucker
////////////////////////////////////////////////////////> i dont understand truckers message to me, but it does not sit right with me. i am taking it like a put down and that is the last thing i need right now. i am pretty upset mystic.
Posted by newwife on October 10, 2004, at 17:52:50
In reply to RE:: Hey everyone-mystic, posted by trucker on October 10, 2004, at 17:19:36
thats all you had to say. i like newwife better. i did not understand the four letter thing. no big deal, forget it.
Posted by newwife on October 10, 2004, at 17:53:26
In reply to RE:: Hey everyone-trucker, posted by newwife on October 10, 2004, at 17:52:50
Posted by anxious babe on October 10, 2004, at 18:15:27
In reply to RE:: Hey everyone, posted by mystic on October 10, 2004, at 10:26:53
Hey guys,
I agree with Mystic and her earlier posts about not wanting to come on the boards and read about negativity. We should all be here for one another. This is a place where we should be able to come to feel safe and to get the support we need when we are feeling down or share a kind word when we are feeling good.
New Wife, I think your name is beautiful and it reflects who you are and that is a new wife. I loved being a new wife and 5 years later I still love being a wife, so don't let anyone get you down about that. What is a name anyway? Who cares what we call ourselves and please don't leave because of Dr. Bob - it is his job to monitor the boards and make sure that everything stays in control. I don't know what happened, but I don't want you to leave, please reconsider.
Lexy, are you feeling better. You make me worried when I know that you are not doing well and then I don't hear from you. We have to all agree that when we post that we are not doing well that we can't disappear and make everyone wonder what's going on. Jlynne, I am glad to hear that you are doing better and I hope it continues. Mrs. C must really not be feeling well because she hasn't posted at all. I think Mystic and I will have to call her at home and see what's going on. The last time she wrote me on my personal email was that she had a sinus infection plus bronchitis. Please say prayers for everyone on this board past and present who is having a hard time whether it be mentally or physically.
Come on yo-yo's let's stick together and be the way we use to be ((((strong)))). Everyone needs everyone on this board and we can all make a difference in each others life, whether it's just a word of advice or an ear to listen. We are all going to have our bad and good days and this is what this board is for....to either come here and vent or come here and share a positive attitude so we can help someone have a better day.
Mystic - love ya girl! what else can I say we are like to to peas in a pod.
Well I am done preaching and I hope this posts helps everyone. Love to all.
anxious babe
Posted by newwife on October 10, 2004, at 19:11:37
In reply to RE:: Hey everyone, posted by anxious babe on October 10, 2004, at 18:15:27
what can i say, you always know the right thing to say. thanks for the smile you brought to my face. i guess i have am having a rough couple of days. you guys are great, i love you all so much-jessica
Posted by mystic on October 10, 2004, at 19:22:38
In reply to RE:: Hey everyone--babe, posted by newwife on October 10, 2004, at 19:11:37
Hey girlfreind thanks for coming to your senses...and no more talk about leaving..thank you very much ahahahah...Your freind mystic
Posted by Mrs. C on October 10, 2004, at 20:06:59
In reply to Re: Belly weight gain » ednababish, posted by jlynne on October 8, 2004, at 11:33:05
Hey Yo Yo's! Good to see that the board has been busy! I was pretty sick this past week and did read the board at all. I am feeling alot better and it was nice to see that there were so many posts. I have not been able to go through all of them yet but I plan too. Lexy, I hope that you are doing better. Ali, I will pray for you dear and it was nice to see your post. Jlynne, Anxious and Mystic you guys are the greatest and I love reading your posts. I miss everyone terribly and I feel so left out! Boo Hoo to me. But I plan to get back into things now that I am feeling myself again. Love you all! Mrs. C
Posted by anxious babe on October 10, 2004, at 20:33:42
In reply to Hey everyone, posted by Mrs. C on October 10, 2004, at 20:06:59
Hey Mrs. C,
It's so good to have to you back! I am so glad that you are feeling better. So what's new with you. We miss you! I will catch up with you later. I hope you have a good day off tomorrow.
I love having Monday's off as I am sure everyone does. Well like I said it is so good to have you back and I will catch up with you later.
Love,
anxious babe
Posted by jlynne on October 10, 2004, at 20:47:13
In reply to Hey everyone, posted by Mrs. C on October 10, 2004, at 20:06:59
Soooooooooo good to see you are feeling better. We have missed you much! We will have to think about a "welcome back" party, eh? I don't know, though . . . your parties take a lot out of me; Al and I tangoed ALL NIGHT LONG! (LOL).
Welcome back sweetie!
(((Mrs. C)))
. . . jlynne
Posted by jlynne on October 10, 2004, at 20:47:53
In reply to RE:: Hey everyone--babe, posted by newwife on October 10, 2004, at 19:11:37
Posted by anxious babe on October 10, 2004, at 21:46:56
In reply to (((newwife))) (nm), posted by jlynne on October 10, 2004, at 20:47:53
Well I am struggling with the Lexapro weight gain.....does anyone have any advice.
I don't know what I want to do - get off the lex and be anxious but thinner and happier or stay on the lex and risk gaining more and more weight.
I have been on the lex since March of this year and have already gained 12 pounds. When does it stop? or does it. The weight gain is starting to consume my every thought, but not enough to really do something about it. It is so weird this feeling. It's like a lack of motivation to really get serious.
Does anyone else feel this way. Any advice please!!
Anxious babe
Posted by trucker on October 10, 2004, at 22:35:57
In reply to RE:: Hey everyone, posted by anxious babe on October 10, 2004, at 18:15:27
now you see why trucker doesn't post... cause no one is there for me.. and i get road about being negative... maybe that is why i don't post. can't be bright and cheery all the time
trucker
Posted by trucker on October 10, 2004, at 22:45:58
In reply to RE:: Hey everyone-trucker, posted by newwife on October 10, 2004, at 17:52:50
it was a joke he he.. i guess you people don't want me around cause you weren't here for me when i was weaning down from lex, missing my best friend who wouldn't talk, and selling and buying a house too...yet you are quick to jump on me about somethng you should have understood..seems like everything here is one sided and selfish...enjoy
trucker
///////////////////////////////////////////////// > thats all you had to say. i like newwife better. i did not understand the four letter thing. no big deal, forget it.
Posted by trucker on October 10, 2004, at 22:47:10
In reply to RE:: i am not a bride anymore. i am a wife. :) (nm), posted by newwife on October 10, 2004, at 17:53:26
WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE??????????????????????
trucker
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Posted by trucker on October 10, 2004, at 22:51:32
In reply to Re: where is Trucker, posted by Mrs. C on September 27, 2004, at 21:15:34
when i do post i get jumped so don't worry it won't happen again
trucker
/////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////> Trucker, I hope that things are okay with you. I am very worried that you haven't posted and I pray that you are in a good place. But I fear that you are not and that you are hurting and alone. Please come back to post and let me know how you are. Mrs. C
Posted by newwife on October 10, 2004, at 22:52:59
In reply to RE:: i am not a bride anymore. i am a wife. :), posted by trucker on October 10, 2004, at 22:47:10
why the heck are you being so rude? in my opinion i was a bride on my wedding day, now i am a wife. nobody was jumping on you. i hardly know you and maybe i took what you wrote out of context,but i know i didnt when read your most recent posts. i was not aware that you were having problems, and i would have been more then happy to be a friend during that time. i was never given the chance. i am so sorry you feel sad and mad and whatever else. i just sensed some sarcasm and anger in your post. i am sorry you felt ganged up on. i never meant for it to be like that. i am not that type of person. sorry if you felt that way. i hope you are ok now, if not i will be glad to talk about it, or should i say write about it. hee hee.--jess
Posted by newwife on October 10, 2004, at 22:58:31
In reply to Re: where is Trucker » Mrs. C, posted by trucker on October 10, 2004, at 22:51:32
maybe you shouldnt if you are so mad
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