Psycho-Babble Relationships Thread 848795

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LOOKING FOR DAMOS, TOPH, ADAGRACE, SUSAN47

Posted by Just Me33 on August 28, 2008, at 14:39:59

Sunny10 is one of my very nearest and dearest friends that has been helping me through a lot of turmoil lately. She suggested that i contact you all, as she loves all of you and thought you may be able to help me. And she says to be sure and say Hello.

 

Re: LOOKING FOR DAMOS, TOPH, ADAGRACE, SUSAN47 Just Me33

Posted by Damos on September 2, 2008, at 17:39:40

In reply to LOOKING FOR DAMOS, TOPH, ADAGRACE, SUSAN47, posted by Just Me33 on August 28, 2008, at 14:39:59

Hi Just Me33,

These days I could go by the tag Not Here Much More 44 =0). I see you met Susan over on Psyche, so you already know two of my most favorite people in the whole world. Unfortunately Grace isn't around the boards anymore, but I hope Toph pops in to say hello, he's a really one of natures true gentlemen.

I can't imagine what Sunny would have said that I know about relationships other than how to make a mess of them ;-)

Your post below kinda sums up what I was gonna say about what you've been going through. And Sunny is right you need to protect your heart. Can only say that in your shoes I'd have been royally messed up about happened too.

Just try and trust your own judgement and listen to your intuition. If things feel like they're moving too fast then they probably are. It's perfectly normal to have doubts and concerns when something like this happens - and often times even when things are going fine. What you think, feel, need and want, and what is going on for you *is* just as important as his stuff.

Sunny is way wiser than she knows so you've got a really great friend there. Give her a big hug for me okay.

Damos

 

Re: LOOKING FOR DAMOS, TOPH, ADAGRACE, SUSAN47

Posted by Just Me33 on September 3, 2008, at 9:18:23

In reply to Re: LOOKING FOR DAMOS, TOPH, ADAGRACE, SUSAN47 Just Me33, posted by Damos on September 2, 2008, at 17:39:40

Damos,

Thanks so much for replyingat this point, I am taking it one HOUR at a timeeven one day at a time seems impossible right now. Sunny10 said that it is time for me to cut the cord and start the healing process.which again, seems unbearable. R did call last night, didnt leave a message and I didnt answer the phoneI didnt even know what to say..You broke my heart and filled me with empty promises?! It is devastating!

So, a little more backgroundhe has been married twice, but the last time was 12 years agocould part of it be that he is so afraid to change and he has his heels dug in? Both of his wives cheated on him.if he could be with them, how could he NOT be with me, a person that is as loyal and loving as they come!

I hate questioning myselfI hate feeling like he broke my spiritand I believed himI feel so suckered...I have already had a bad marriage and a difficult 3 year relationship and i REALLY didn't need this! (Who does?)

So, care to share your story? I would like to feel like I am not the ONLY person with an aching heart..

And I will be sure and get your message to Sunny10!

 

Re: LOOKING FOR DAMOS, TOPH, ADAGRACE, SUSAN47 Just Me33

Posted by Toph on December 5, 2008, at 15:15:09

In reply to Re: LOOKING FOR DAMOS, TOPH, ADAGRACE, SUSAN47, posted by Just Me33 on September 3, 2008, at 9:18:23

Like Damos, I rarely participate on PB and never look on this board (I found this thread through Google). I'm so sorry I missed it. Sunny is so sweet, you're in good hands with her. Babble mail me if you start a new thread, I'd love to check it out. I hope all is well with you, justme.
Toph


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