Psycho-Babble Relationships Thread 758172

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Im back, i have something to tell you, advice?

Posted by rjlockhart on May 12, 2007, at 17:01:24

I didnt take my bipoler medication today.

Even when i do take it, i know am getting very, well almost calling the cards on my freinds, telling it like is, because in my "view" they are rude to me and only call when they need something.

I think i am inheriting a very bad way of my family, getting mad, oversomething that is not that big, but in my mind is big.

I want to sometimes just lash out on to them but no keep my kool, there is this girl that is rude as there is, i give her the definate evil eye when i see her. She just rolls her eyes, i want to almost grab her and slap her or punch, which ever she deserves, my dad is a criminal law attorney for 35 years, i think he can deal with her hissy fit.

She has been told she has been rude, she just doesnt care, "ok, well lets go shopping" i mean i going to pay some one to take a punch at her.

GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR god im mad i dont know why.

Is my view of the world or friends disorted? maybe to where im thinking way out of "preportion" i dont think so, maybe sometimes.

I still need, when im around socials i just dont want to be there, but you know i have to socislize or you look awkward.

I need your guys help.

Rj

 

Revenge on people who have hurt you

Posted by rjlockhart on May 12, 2007, at 17:01:24

Well all i will say is i have some very direct comments i want to say to people "oh call me anytime" then they act like they dont know you. This is some of my people i know, not family, people that i thought where frineds.

First of all, Confrountation, if they try to avoid get there friends to know about it, and tell them what they did to you. Dont lie, just say what happened. And it will get to them.

2nd of all if, i know a person throught church who thinks there better than pride, just say to them, the trash is being swept up, so smell some trash that needs to leave.

Omg im getting good at this!

I love myself.

Just adapt yourself to hurtful people and make them pay back.

Some times i just think about getting a whip, looking at them, mmmm.............

I am hurt person but this revenge inside me is eating me up.

I need someone here to tell me to come back to earth............

I will tell you more what happened.

Rj

 

Please be civil rjlockhart

Posted by Racer on May 12, 2007, at 17:09:04

In reply to Im back, i have something to tell you, advice?, posted by rjlockhart on May 12, 2007, at 14:28:39

>>
> i want to almost grab her and slap her or punch, which ever she deserves,
>
> i mean i going to pay some one to take a punch at her.
>

Please don't post about violence against others.

If you have any questions regarding the civility guidelines, please check out the FAQ at http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#civil Dr Bob, as always, has final authority over all administrative actions on this site, and may choose to modify or reverse any deputy action.

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Re: Revenge on people who have hurt you rjlockhart

Posted by karen_kay on May 22, 2007, at 20:30:53

In reply to Revenge on people who have hurt you, posted by rjlockhart on May 12, 2007, at 17:01:24

it really sounds like you're hurting rj. if these people make you feel this way, then why not just choose to not be around them? of course, your family, you don't always have a choice. but sometimes with friends, i've found distance is better. honestly, i'm having a situation with a friend who lives over an hour away, but i can hardly stand to talk to her on the phone anymore. her negativity just bleeds through. and i have to make a choice, you know? is that option available for you dear?

if a relationship is tearing you up like this sweeite, it soudns like it's not worth it. you have to come first, you know?

one other thing too... not taking your meds? not to sound motherly, but.... i am a mother you know. hey, mothers can be hot too! (and i sure am :)

 

Re: Revenge on people who have hurt you karen_kay

Posted by Phillipa on May 26, 2007, at 15:01:39

In reply to Re: Revenge on people who have hurt you rjlockhart, posted by karen_kay on May 22, 2007, at 20:30:53

Sorry kk too young for you. Love Phillipa

 

pissoffphillipa (nm) Phillipa

Posted by karen_kay on May 26, 2007, at 17:12:27

In reply to Re: Revenge on people who have hurt you karen_kay, posted by Phillipa on May 26, 2007, at 15:01:39

 

Re: pissoffphillipa karen_kay

Posted by Phillipa on May 26, 2007, at 19:55:38

In reply to pissoffphillipa (nm) Phillipa, posted by karen_kay on May 26, 2007, at 17:12:27

Ahhh I see you like younger men. My husband is l3 years younger than me. I like older men more money. Love Phillipa

 

you're a sweetheart.... Phillipa

Posted by karen_kay on May 26, 2007, at 20:37:06

In reply to Re: pissoffphillipa karen_kay, posted by Phillipa on May 26, 2007, at 19:55:38

i'm trying for a block dear.... it's nothing personal, please don't take it that way.

and mister kk is younger than i. i don't want to be wiping more diapers. the duck's is enough.

thank you phillipa. if i had your picture, i'd have it framed instead of my own.

regards (and i only wish i had your understanding),

kk

 

Re: you're a sweetheart.... karen_kay

Posted by Phillipa on May 26, 2007, at 21:26:01

In reply to you're a sweetheart.... Phillipa, posted by karen_kay on May 26, 2007, at 20:37:06

KK why do you want a block is it a test? Love Phillipa

 

Re: you're a sweetheart.... Phillipa

Posted by karen_kay on May 27, 2007, at 5:52:07

In reply to Re: you're a sweetheart.... karen_kay, posted by Phillipa on May 26, 2007, at 21:26:01

i'm spending too much time here.
my moods are out of whack
and the guilt i have over everythign, from chewign too much gum, not eating enough, fighting with mister kk adn my darlign sister, gets to be too much to take at times.

babble is my happy place and sometimes my life isn't always flowers and bubble gum dear.

i do appreciate it. see, i feel guilty that i didn't ask you first. so very guilty phillipa. will you marry me? anyone who can take my abuse and still come back for more is wonderful in my book.

(((phillipa)))

ps. we all need a vacation from time to time, don't we? i know i need one from myself quite often. and when i'm flipping out, i need one from babble especially. and i really can't thank you enough for beign the special person you are dear.

 

Re: you're a sweetheart.... karen_kay

Posted by Phillipa on May 27, 2007, at 19:32:30

In reply to Re: you're a sweetheart.... Phillipa, posted by karen_kay on May 27, 2007, at 5:52:07

KK pretty soon you will be married to everyone on babble. And yes it's a happy place. Do you give everyone big diamonds? Have you done a count lately to see how many people you have proposed too? Well If you do take a break I will miss you and your butt picture very much. Oh I forgot it's in my photo album. Love Phillipa

 

((((((phillipa))))) (nm)

Posted by karen_kay on May 29, 2007, at 8:36:18

In reply to Re: you're a sweetheart.... karen_kay, posted by Phillipa on May 27, 2007, at 19:32:30

 

Re: Revenge on people who have hurt you

Posted by wheatlandgirl on December 5, 2007, at 15:27:17

In reply to Revenge on people who have hurt you, posted by rjlockhart on May 12, 2007, at 17:01:24

One thing I have learned from listening to a radio show entitled Hope In The Night, as a manner of coping with the many, many people who have blatantly hurt me, is, it is only hurting ME to hang on to revenge in my heart not them..it is as if the abuser owes me money for what they me through and I stamp, 'Debt forgiven..'not to reconcile...just to FORGIVE..the tie that binds you to the abuser or careless person you undo the tie and give to tie to God, God will punish in his own way and time..pray for careless people...

 

Re: Revenge on people who have hurt you

Posted by maree on May 14, 2008, at 18:06:26

In reply to Re: Revenge on people who have hurt you, posted by wheatlandgirl on December 5, 2007, at 15:27:17

I am afraid that "forgiving someone" does not hurt them enough to satisfy me. THEY need to pay for what they have done to me, and forgiving them just makes me look weak and pathetic, whereas a clever and cutting sarcastic remark, preferably in front of people whose respect they need, or making them lose something they value, is to me, the best payback.


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