Psycho-Babble Relationships Thread 807674

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Can I get a lil support from the Psy Bab crew pls

Posted by FrequentFryer on January 19, 2008, at 13:10:25

Im taking Nardil and feeling pretty good, managed to get a girlfriend kind of.
She is litterally crazy / psychotic though has an amphetamine problem and yeah, but thats ok she can be very nice, but then accidently tries to take advantage of ppl without realizing, I wanted to help her out and just be friends but last night she was busting my chops and I kind of insertivly told her I don't except that behavior from my friends, then she turned it around saying I was the rude inconsiderate one and I started to cry (Nardil gives me emotional swings sometimes and I was kind of attached to her) but when she saw me crying she just busted my chops worse then I realized what was happening snaped out of it & told her politely to leave.
AHh well,
You guys should just say something like, Nah Freq forget about it your cool did the right thing and since your not a depressed shy zombie should be able to get plenty of nice girls.

You think, or do I sound like a complete nutter?

Freq

 

Re: Can I get a lil support from the Psy Bab crew pls

Posted by FrequentFryer on January 19, 2008, at 13:10:25

In reply to Can I get a lil support from the Psy Bab crew pls, posted by FrequentFryer on January 16, 2008, at 0:19:04

> Im taking Nardil and feeling pretty good, managed to get a girlfriend kind of.
> She is litterally crazy / psychotic though has an amphetamine problem and yeah, but thats ok she can be very nice, but then accidently tries to take advantage of ppl without realizing, I wanted to help her out and just be friends but last night she was busting my chops and I kind of insertivly told her I don't except that behavior from my friends, then she turned it around saying I was the rude inconsiderate one and I started to cry (Nardil gives me emotional swings sometimes and I was kind of attached to her) but when she saw me crying she just busted my chops worse then I realized what was happening snaped out of it & told her politely to leave.
> AHh well,
> You guys should just say something like, Nah Freq forget about it your cool did the right thing and since your not a depressed shy zombie should be able to get plenty of nice girls.
>
> You think, or do I sound like a complete nutter?
>
> Freq

Ahhck feel a bit drained though, when she left without saying a word she kissed me to try and make me feel worse huh.
Damn crazy Nardil adventures.

 

Re: Can I get a lil support from the Psy Bab crew pls

Posted by FrequentFryer on January 19, 2008, at 13:10:25

In reply to Re: Can I get a lil support from the Psy Bab crew pls, posted by FrequentFryer on January 16, 2008, at 0:23:19

> > Im taking Nardil and feeling pretty good, managed to get a girlfriend kind of.
> > She is litterally crazy / psychotic though has an amphetamine problem and yeah, but thats ok she can be very nice, but then accidently tries to take advantage of ppl without realizing, I wanted to help her out and just be friends but last night she was busting my chops and I kind of insertivly told her I don't except that behavior from my friends, then she turned it around saying I was the rude inconsiderate one and I started to cry (Nardil gives me emotional swings sometimes and I was kind of attached to her) but when she saw me crying she just busted my chops worse then I realized what was happening snaped out of it & told her politely to leave.
> > AHh well,
> > You guys should just say something like, Nah Freq forget about it your cool did the right thing and since your not a depressed shy zombie should be able to get plenty of nice girls.
> >
> > You think, or do I sound like a complete nutter?
> >
> > Freq
>
> Ahhck feel a bit drained though, when she left without saying a word she kissed me to try and make me feel worse huh.
> Damn crazy Nardil adventures.

Damn crazy medication merry go round adventures I should say.

Heh now you probably think Im a complete nutter.

 

Re: Can I get a lil support from the Psy Bab crew

Posted by garyengelm on January 19, 2008, at 13:10:25

In reply to Re: Can I get a lil support from the Psy Bab crew pls, posted by FrequentFryer on January 16, 2008, at 0:27:46

You say "She is litterally crazy / psychotic though has an amphetamine problem and yeah, but thats ok she can be very nice"

IMHO, your sounding a bit nutty. Your already having enough problems, why get involved with someone like this. I'm no relationship expert, but why add to your already problems. Just my thoughts.

Gary

 

Re: Can I get a lil support from the Psy Bab crew

Posted by Justherself54 on January 19, 2008, at 13:10:25

In reply to Re: Can I get a lil support from the Psy Bab crew, posted by garyengelm on January 16, 2008, at 7:47:31

When a person who's been depressed, socially isolated and self-esteem in the toilet, and then you start to feel better, sometimes we jump into things we don't put a lot of thought into..I don't think you're nutters..obviously something attracted you to her..unfortunately, she sounds very unstable..the one thing you don't need at this time when you're trying to stabilize yourself..

Try to have some faith that the med is going to keep working and take some time to get to know a woman..hopefully one who will educate herself about mood disorders and can give you support.. friendship first..the rest will take care of itself if it's meant to be..

Getting out there in dating land is very hard, but go slow, even though you want to get into it guns ablazing!

 

Re: Can I get a lil support from the Psy Bab crew pls

Posted by polarbear206 on January 19, 2008, at 13:10:25

In reply to Can I get a lil support from the Psy Bab crew pls, posted by FrequentFryer on January 16, 2008, at 0:19:04

> Im taking Nardil and feeling pretty good, managed to get a girlfriend kind of.
> She is litterally crazy / psychotic though has an amphetamine problem and yeah, but thats ok she can be very nice, but then accidently tries to take advantage of ppl without realizing, I wanted to help her out and just be friends but last night she was busting my chops and I kind of insertivly told her I don't except that behavior from my friends, then she turned it around saying I was the rude inconsiderate one and I started to cry (Nardil gives me emotional swings sometimes and I was kind of attached to her) but when she saw me crying she just busted my chops worse then I realized what was happening snaped out of it & told her politely to leave.
> AHh well,
> You guys should just say something like, Nah Freq forget about it your cool did the right thing and since your not a depressed shy zombie should be able to get plenty of nice girls.
>
> You think, or do I sound like a complete nutter?
>
> Freq


Take this word of advise, missery loves company, and she is obviously in a bad place. You can't help her until she wants to get help for her substance abuse problem. Until then, you don't deserve to be verbally abused by her. Do you self a favor and take the high road.

PB

 

Re: Can I get a lil support from the Psy Bab crew pls

Posted by Phillipa on January 19, 2008, at 13:10:25

In reply to Re: Can I get a lil support from the Psy Bab crew pls, posted by polarbear206 on January 16, 2008, at 9:29:26

I think it may be true but very hard to do some like to feel better than others and raise their self-esteem by being with those that are in worse shape. I did this and it was a mistake. This was my experience only. I wish you much lucke FF. Phillipa

 

Re: Can I get a lil support from the Psy Bab crew Justherself54

Posted by FrequentFryer on January 19, 2008, at 13:10:25

In reply to Re: Can I get a lil support from the Psy Bab crew, posted by Justherself54 on January 16, 2008, at 8:56:46

> When a person who's been depressed, socially isolated and self-esteem in the toilet, and then you start to feel better, sometimes we jump into things we don't put a lot of thought into..I don't think you're nutters..obviously something attracted you to her..unfortunately, she sounds very unstable..the one thing you don't need at this time when you're trying to stabilize yourself..
>
> Try to have some faith that the med is going to keep working and take some time to get to know a woman..hopefully one who will educate herself about mood disorders and can give you support.. friendship first..the rest will take care of itself if it's meant to be..
>
> Getting out there in dating land is very hard, but go slow, even though you want to get into it guns ablazing!
>
>

Thanks, good advice.

 

Re: Can I get a lil support from the Psy Bab crew pls polarbear206

Posted by FrequentFryer on January 19, 2008, at 13:10:26

In reply to Re: Can I get a lil support from the Psy Bab crew pls, posted by polarbear206 on January 16, 2008, at 9:29:26

> > Im taking Nardil and feeling pretty good, managed to get a girlfriend kind of.
> > She is litterally crazy / psychotic though has an amphetamine problem and yeah, but thats ok she can be very nice, but then accidently tries to take advantage of ppl without realizing, I wanted to help her out and just be friends but last night she was busting my chops and I kind of insertivly told her I don't except that behavior from my friends, then she turned it around saying I was the rude inconsiderate one and I started to cry (Nardil gives me emotional swings sometimes and I was kind of attached to her) but when she saw me crying she just busted my chops worse then I realized what was happening snaped out of it & told her politely to leave.
> > AHh well,
> > You guys should just say something like, Nah Freq forget about it your cool did the right thing and since your not a depressed shy zombie should be able to get plenty of nice girls.
> >
> > You think, or do I sound like a complete nutter?
> >
> > Freq
>
>
> Take this word of advise, missery loves company, and she is obviously in a bad place. You can't help her until she wants to get help for her substance abuse problem. Until then, you don't deserve to be verbally abused by her. Do you self a favor and take the high road.
>
> PB


Yup, thanks, being alone sucks.. but definatly not as bad as being with bad company.

 

Re: Can I get a lil support from the Psy Bab crew pls

Posted by FrequentFryer on January 19, 2008, at 13:10:26

In reply to Re: Can I get a lil support from the Psy Bab crew pls, posted by Phillipa on January 16, 2008, at 12:27:18

> I think it may be true but very hard to do some like to feel better than others and raise their self-esteem by being with those that are in worse shape. I did this and it was a mistake. This was my experience only. I wish you much lucke FF. Phillipa

THANKYOU!
yEAH SHE NEEDS INHOUSE TREATMENT, THE SAD THING IS the best psycologist in our town (Perth) AU can't get through to her, her parents try as hard as me if not harder but they can't either Im way out of my league.

 

Re: Can I get a lil support from the Psy Bab crew

Posted by francineus on January 19, 2008, at 13:10:26

In reply to Re: Can I get a lil support from the Psy Bab crew pls, posted by polarbear206 on January 16, 2008, at 9:29:26

I'm sorry you had to go through that! She sounds like she has problems of her own that have nothing to do with you. Are you just being too nice and not being self protective enough? If she's mistreating you, then you are better off without her. You need and deserve someone strong and understanding.


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