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decisions decisions

Posted by star008 on January 9, 2008, at 22:13:38

seems like no matter what i do and what move, however carefully thought out is not the right one in one way or another. i never wanna hurt anybody but sometimes one way or another someone gets hurt.. I try so hard not to hurt anyone I am nice and have no evil intent..but sometimes i gotta mind my own business and keep my mouth shut even if something looks wrong to me cuz i might not know the whole story

 

Re: decisions decisions » star008

Posted by Daisym on January 9, 2008, at 22:37:37

In reply to decisions decisions, posted by star008 on January 9, 2008, at 22:13:38

Sounds like a rough spot to be in. Sometimes our best intentions backfire. And sometimes a person isn't ready to hear anything practical as far as advice goes. Even carefully worded support can misconstrued. I guess all you can really do is come from a sincere, heartfelt place and hope your help is received as you intended.

All we can do is our best and try to keep the perspective that a hurting person is apt to be touchy and even hurtful as they work through their own pain.

I don't know the specifics of the situation but keeping your own counsel for awhile sounds wise.

In the meantime, take care of yourself.

 

Re: decisions decisions (nm)

Posted by star008 on January 9, 2008, at 22:46:25

In reply to Re: decisions decisions » star008, posted by Daisym on January 9, 2008, at 22:37:37

 

Re: decisions decisions

Posted by star008 on January 9, 2008, at 22:57:31

In reply to Re: decisions decisions » star008, posted by Daisym on January 9, 2008, at 22:37:37

sorry, i meant to say i think you are right.. thanks for your response. it was great. It is a bad place to be and i never intended for it to be like this.. did the best i could.

 

Re: decisions decisions » star008

Posted by muffled on January 9, 2008, at 23:23:07

In reply to Re: decisions decisions, posted by star008 on January 9, 2008, at 22:57:31

Star, you freakin me out!
You remind me of me!
Daisy said good things.
You a good egg in my book.
((( star )))
M

 

Re: decisions decisions

Posted by star008 on January 10, 2008, at 0:01:16

In reply to Re: decisions decisions » star008, posted by muffled on January 9, 2008, at 23:23:07

yeah,., she did say good things.. thanks muffled .. I like you too.. you make me smile.)


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