Psycho-Babble Psychology Thread 790650

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Fighting for our lives me and little grandaughter

Posted by happyflower on October 22, 2007, at 15:17:08

Lia is still is going strong today, it is amazing really. The viewing was planned for tomorrow, well um, little Lia is saying "bite me" to that I guess. lol Sorry had to laugh, it makes my sad heart feel better. I had T today and it was kept light.

My T said some really neat things about me, and I am like I don't even recognize that you are talking about me. lol He says he knows because I didn't get very much valadation when growing up. We talked about how I was stunted in growth. I said yeah, and I am even short too. He said, well at least you are consistant! lol That was funny. But he said we still continue to grow, but I am like in huge growth phase in my life.

We talked a lot about parenting and stuff and
he said something I was a miracle baby (adult)myself. lol The stuff I have endured in childhood, it is like I am 1 in 100 million that I made it to adulthood with my good mental and physical health that I have. I said well I am glad I passed the test, I am not a pyschopath. He said I was an amazing person, a mircle child myself. OMG He he really say that?

Then I said how do you really know I am not just making all of this up? He said because I am not that good of an actress. lol He said, I saw your caring heart and your emotions. I said well you got through to me and my emotions that are buried deep like nobody else could. I said you are a mean brute! lol I told him I was trying to make him feel guilty. He said he wasn't feeling guilty, because he knows what he is doing after 40 plus years doing all this sh*t. lol

I was the same weight and length of Lia when I was born. My first name means "warrior," so that explains things I guess.lol It was a good session and I feel like it was a bonding session with him. I guess I needed that to get through this week and next.

 

Re: Fighting for our lives me and little grandaughter » happyflower

Posted by TherapyGirl on October 22, 2007, at 17:21:41

In reply to Fighting for our lives me and little grandaughter, posted by happyflower on October 22, 2007, at 15:17:08

Sounds neat, HF. And everything he said about you is true, imho.

And what about little Lia? Amazing baby!!!!!

 

Re: Fighting for our lives me and little grandaughter

Posted by rskontos on October 22, 2007, at 18:19:36

In reply to Fighting for our lives me and little grandaughter, posted by happyflower on October 22, 2007, at 15:17:08

Happyflower, First of all, I am thrilled Baby Lia has had this much time to give you, your family and her parents. She is a fighter! And she is a precious gift to all who gets to know her however much time she is allowed. I wish there was a miracle that would extend her time on Earth indefinitely!!

Second of all, I am thrilled that your T and you had such a wonderful session for you to be shown how wonderful you are! Your T is wonderful person in my book to do what he did for you!!! You are a miracle too. I will agree with that. We are all miracles that make it through what we endured to get where we are!!! What a wonderful feeling validation is!!! We didnt get it as children and it is vital to mental health and our survival. Plus to be whole persons. You are an amazing person. Funny how long it takes us to believe what others see first. You might be a warrior but you have a heart of gold!! Keep Baby Lia and her parents our well wishes and support and you hang in Warrior HappyFlower with the heart of Gold!!!! rk

 

Re: Fighting for our lives me and little grandaughter » happyflower

Posted by Phillipa on October 22, 2007, at 23:06:34

In reply to Fighting for our lives me and little grandaughter, posted by happyflower on October 22, 2007, at 15:17:08

Happyflower a true miracle. Little Lia is strong and so are you and family. Love Phillipa

 

Re: Fighting for our lives me and little grandaughter

Posted by happyflower on October 23, 2007, at 11:48:24

In reply to Fighting for our lives me and little grandaughter, posted by happyflower on October 22, 2007, at 15:17:08

Lia is not do so well today, she is on morphine and is breathing abnormal. We will probabaly be there most of the next couple of days. I will try to keep in touch.

All your words have meant so much to me, I just want you all to know because I haven't been responding indivdually to each post.

I haven't been sleeping to well this week and last night I slept 14 hours (restless though). The toll is catching up to me. I can't imagine how the parents are feeling.

 

Re: Fighting for our lives me and little grandaugh » happyflower

Posted by Raindancer on October 23, 2007, at 14:46:32

In reply to Fighting for our lives me and little grandaughter, posted by happyflower on October 22, 2007, at 15:17:08

Happyflower, you are an amazing person as your T knows and I am really proud to know you. Take care of yourself. Prayers and blessings on little Lia and all your family. Always in our thoughts.

 

Re: Fighting for our lives me and little grandaugh

Posted by Phillipa on October 23, 2007, at 20:11:22

In reply to Re: Fighting for our lives me and little grandaugh » happyflower, posted by Raindancer on October 23, 2007, at 14:46:32

Happyflower take care of self and a little kiss to little Lia. Sorry she's not doing well. We're here for you. Phillipa

 

Update

Posted by happyflower on October 25, 2007, at 10:14:40

In reply to Re: Fighting for our lives me and little grandaugh, posted by Phillipa on October 23, 2007, at 20:11:22

Baby Lia is still going strong, actually stronger than when she first came home. My family is going to visit tonight, so I am looking forward to that.
A wonderful professional photographer came to visit, and he does work for terminally ill people and does it for free. It is his passion. Well he took a couple of hundred pictures of little Lia, I am looking forward to see those photos. She is a week old today.

 

Re: Update » happyflower

Posted by Phillipa on October 25, 2007, at 12:47:50

In reply to Update, posted by happyflower on October 25, 2007, at 10:14:40

Happyflower please share a whole week the miracle goes on. So happy for you all. Phillipa

 

Re: Update » happyflower

Posted by Raindancer on October 25, 2007, at 18:05:34

In reply to Update, posted by happyflower on October 25, 2007, at 10:14:40

Happyflower, how absolutely wonderful, brave and strong little Lia is - she surely takes after you. My thoughts are for you and your family.((((Happyflower))))

 

Re: Update » happyflower

Posted by TherapyGirl on October 25, 2007, at 18:43:24

In reply to Update, posted by happyflower on October 25, 2007, at 10:14:40

That's great, HF. What a fighter she is!

 

Re: Update

Posted by rskontos on October 25, 2007, at 18:50:02

In reply to Re: Update » happyflower, posted by TherapyGirl on October 25, 2007, at 18:43:24

Happyflower, that is amazing. What a little gift Baby Lia is!! Such a strong one she is!!! Thanks for sharing this with us.....rk


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