Psycho-Babble Psychology Thread 764312

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Bye

Posted by muffled on June 19, 2007, at 22:50:04

I think I messed up.
I dissed a person somehow.
mUFFLED IS SUCH A F*CK UP.
f*cked f*cked f*ckED.
Stupider than stupid.
There's areason I such a loser, cuz I AM.
Noboddy talk to this person.
B-mails off.
Tell SP GG I sorry.
BYE ALL
You OK.

 

Re: Bye » muffled

Posted by sleepygirl on June 19, 2007, at 23:13:39

In reply to Bye, posted by muffled on June 19, 2007, at 22:50:04

if you "messed up" as you say
I still think you're awesome
I really can't imagine you really being hurtful to someone, but if you were then you can hang out with me, because I'm not always the nicest person on planet and I say wrong things sometimes
ah well, it is what is is
dear muffled..too hard on self
come back soon

 

Re: Bye » muffled

Posted by twinleaf on June 19, 2007, at 23:15:04

In reply to Bye, posted by muffled on June 19, 2007, at 22:50:04

Don't Go! You write such helpful and insightful posts- whatever happened in b-mail surely isn't as bad as you think- and is sure to blow over quickly anyway.

 

Thx guys you nice. I got good idea of punish

Posted by muffled on June 19, 2007, at 23:50:19

In reply to Re: Bye » muffled, posted by twinleaf on June 19, 2007, at 23:15:04

w/o S. injury.
Muffled is a stupid f/u/cker,she fuckedup.
Shittyer than anything.
There.
Now I gone.
Now I have the punish.
This just as hard as SI, mebbe harder so s'all good. Yup.
S'ok.
Slightly nautious.
But I OK always am.
Sorry to all of babble if I ever make you feel bad.
All are good people.
Now I get stuff done.
Thinking too much is bad.

 

Re: Thx guys you nice. I got good idea of punish » muffled

Posted by frida on June 19, 2007, at 23:59:51

In reply to Thx guys you nice. I got good idea of punish, posted by muffled on June 19, 2007, at 23:50:19

dear muffled...
just wanted to say I am so sorry you are hurting and feeling so bad about yourself...

You've been always so helpful and understanding with me...

I'd be sad if you left..

you seem to be so hard on yourself...i understand 'cause i'm the same way..

you are good..i know you don't feel that way but your posts have meant so much to me and I read your posts and they help...you help...

I"m so sorry you are hurting.

love and support,
Frida

 

Re: Thx guys you nice. I got good idea of punish » muffled

Posted by Dinah on June 20, 2007, at 7:15:15

In reply to Thx guys you nice. I got good idea of punish, posted by muffled on June 19, 2007, at 23:50:19

Muffled, what on earth is the matter, if you can tell me?

I truly don't know, so how bad can you have been?

I understand the desire to do this, it's something I frequently feel.

If you want to talk about it, you can email me. My email is in the FAQ.

 

Re: Thx guys you nice. I got good idea of punish

Posted by LadyBug on June 20, 2007, at 7:28:23

In reply to Re: Thx guys you nice. I got good idea of punish » muffled, posted by Dinah on June 20, 2007, at 7:15:15

(((((((MUFFLED)))))))
Please know that you're not bad! Not even close, you are kind and caring and just plain awesome!
Let us know how we can help.
Love,
LadyBug

 

Re: Bye

Posted by AuntieMel on June 20, 2007, at 8:14:01

In reply to Bye, posted by muffled on June 19, 2007, at 22:50:04

Muffled - it can't be as bad as you think, can it? Though I know it is to you.

I truly don't know what is going on either. Email me if you like and we'll discuss it.

But don't go away, please.

 

Re: Bye

Posted by sunnydays on June 20, 2007, at 10:19:41

In reply to Bye, posted by muffled on June 19, 2007, at 22:50:04

(((((((muffled))))))))))

I like you. You're always great to me. I can't imagine it's as bad as you think. If it's something over on admin, I think that people expect that others will say things there that are a little more challenging... or something. If it's what I think it is, then you were fine, you made your intentions very clear. It's not wrong to make a suggestion...

sunnydays

 

Re: Bye

Posted by LlurpsieNoodle on June 20, 2007, at 10:42:53

In reply to Re: Bye, posted by sunnydays on June 20, 2007, at 10:19:41

Hi Muffeldy,
I don't know if you've completely gone away. I hope you are still around, reading notifications of this thread.

Look, I know how easy it is to condemn oneself. To get buried in self-criticisms. I know that it's incredibly hard to accept the nice things that people say about you when you are already in this cycle of self-punishment.

Just know that I'll be here for you, no matter how foul you think you are. You are just fine to me, just the way you are. Faults, disagreements, all of that stuff. It's irrelevant to how I feel about you.

Try to judge your babble-presence based on the cumulative amount of support and insight you share with us, rather than the most immediate and painful incident (dunno what that may be, btw).

You are so compassionate to other people. Even if you did something you regret, try to treat your own self with a fraction of the compassion you show to others. You are human after all. Mistakes and misjudgements happen. That's how we learn and grow. Think of this incident as an opportunity for growth and increased self-knowledge, rather than as using it as ammunition pointed at my friend.

Get in touch with me sometime? I don't mind hearing from you when you suffer. Just because you're hurting doesn't make you a bad person.

-Ll

 

Re: Bye

Posted by Honore on June 20, 2007, at 11:11:13

In reply to Re: Bye, posted by LlurpsieNoodle on June 20, 2007, at 10:42:53

Muffly, you're always so great-- so often I find myself admiring your ability to say just the right thing--- in just the right way.

I can't believe that whatever you did was anything like as bad as you're imagining.

Don't stay away-- we'll all miss you much too much for that.

Don't punish yourself for things-- especially things that you didn't do-- that you believe are so much worse than they are. Check it out-- please-- before you even think of leaving here or taking it out on yourself.

Honore

 

Sigh. Sorry.

Posted by muffled on June 20, 2007, at 11:26:00

In reply to Bye, posted by muffled on June 19, 2007, at 22:50:04

OK.
Sorry if I caused upset.
I just REALLY hate to cause another pain.
I also sometimes speak out as best I am able to understand in order to maybe try and help see a situation in a different way, to try and help, and stop hurting thats happening.
Sometimes I screw up :-(
I guess its like my T said. She said she could not say she would never hurt me. Cuz people hurt those they care about without meaning to.
And I guess thats why I freaked out, cuz I caused pain to someone I care about.
I will try and allow the huge kindness, the mighty river of your guys kindness flow over me. Its so huge I proly can't stop it :-)
Thanks to whoever pulled my nasty comments....I am pleasantly surprized.
I will try and do better.
I will try and make amends.
Again I am sorry if I upset anyone.
And I thank you for your support.
I gonna learn from this.
I gonna read all what you guys said and learn.
Thanks,
Muffled
p.s. and ya, feels real good too, to know others care, I do feel that :-)

 

Re: Sigh. Sorry. I Care!!!!! (nm) » muffled

Posted by fayeroe on June 20, 2007, at 13:52:07

In reply to Sigh. Sorry., posted by muffled on June 20, 2007, at 11:26:00

 

(((muffy))) you are wonderful!! (nm)

Posted by wishingstar on June 20, 2007, at 18:08:34

In reply to Sigh. Sorry., posted by muffled on June 20, 2007, at 11:26:00

 

Re: Sigh. Sorry. » muffled

Posted by OzLand on June 20, 2007, at 20:35:32

In reply to Sigh. Sorry., posted by muffled on June 20, 2007, at 11:26:00

Muffled

You did not make anyone else feel pain, first of all. I have not read all the responses to you, but you are definitely not a f up. We all do things we are not proud of, and we all make mistakes. I just feel badly that you are so hard on yourself. Rather than beat yourself over the head, I hope you can say and believe it that you are okay; you are a good person. Take care of yourself.

 

Thx guys.

Posted by muffled on June 20, 2007, at 22:22:39

In reply to Sigh. Sorry., posted by muffled on June 20, 2007, at 11:26:00

Just kinda got triggered I guess...
THANKS for your kindness.
Its sorta like rays of sunshine poking thru my storm clouds of self recrinmination.
Its a wonderful thing.
It really really is.
I would NEVER have beleived this mebbe a year or two ago.
The magic of words.
Amazing.

 

Re: Thx guys. » muffled

Posted by Phillipa on June 21, 2007, at 22:04:50

In reply to Thx guys., posted by muffled on June 20, 2007, at 22:22:39

Muffled great sounds like you're staying and you are so sweet. Love Phillipa


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