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Posted by happyflower on February 12, 2006, at 20:37:24
I just talked to my aunt on my dads side of the family who I haven't talked to since her that auto accident that killed her son in law and grandson.
Well anyways she told me that my mom is living in Tampa, not Indiana and has been there for at least a year now. For some of you who don't know my story. I was severly abused by her growing up. My T calls her one scary bitch!
She has threatened my DH life and threatened to abduct my kids.
Well she is all alone, just had thyroid cancer removed a week ago. I know this sounds mean, but I hope they didn't get it all, because once she is dead, will be the only time I will ever feel safe from her. Gee, I wonder why she is all alone? Maybe I should call her up and tell her "her" favorite saying "Paybacks are Hell".So tonight I feel more at peace ( I thought she was living in my town). I might even go to the mall again(first time in 2 years, because she used to work there as a security guard)
I am glad to see my T this Wed. to talk about this. :-)
I still need to be careful, but I don't need to be so hyper vigilant for my safety every where I go. Wheww!
Do you feel the weight of the world if off my back yet? ;)
Posted by fairywings on February 12, 2006, at 22:44:18
In reply to I am at peace tonight. child abuse trigger ******, posted by happyflower on February 12, 2006, at 20:37:24
I'm glad you can rest a little easier now hf. You deserve some peace.
fw
Posted by muffled on February 12, 2006, at 22:48:09
In reply to I am at peace tonight. child abuse trigger ******, posted by happyflower on February 12, 2006, at 20:37:24
Man, I don't know how you turned out so darn nice with a 'mother' like that. Now you got me scared of all female security guards in case they you 'mother'.
Ha, if one ever f*cks w/me, I'll kick her head and think of your sicko 'mother'. I'd do it for you. Your right, any bastard that'd hurt a kid deserves to be alone, to die alone. God'll get her in the end. Can you even begine to imagine her at Judgement Day? Man'o'man, sh*ts gonna fly then.
So I guess I oughtta be more nice, but really if I met her I truly would get her somehow I think.
Urrrgh. Buttons, buttons, my buttons geeting messed with. But I ok.
Glad you doing ok Happy.
Definately got some stuff you goto talk about with your T.
:-(
Take care GRANDMA??????????????????
Whoahhhhhhhhhh! I should look so fine!
(((((Happy))))
Muffled
Posted by Voce on February 13, 2006, at 0:37:46
In reply to I am at peace tonight. child abuse trigger ******, posted by happyflower on February 12, 2006, at 20:37:24
That's wonderful news, HF. Not to be paranoid, but I do know there are subscriptions you can get that track where a person is. I think it's called www.findpeople.com and you can see where people have lived and currently live.
I am glad you feel safe, though. You are a looooong way away from her. I know your T will be glad too...
Posted by B2chica on February 13, 2006, at 9:01:04
In reply to Re: I am at peace tonight. child abuse trigger ****** » happyflower, posted by muffled on February 12, 2006, at 22:48:09
that's one thing my 'mother' always used to say when we'd do something she didn't like "god'll get you for that'.
it still leaves me cold.
HOWEVER, i think in this case karma will win.glad for you hf
b2c.
Posted by madeline on February 14, 2006, at 5:48:56
In reply to I am at peace tonight. child abuse trigger ******, posted by happyflower on February 12, 2006, at 20:37:24
I'm glad she is far away from you, happy. I'm glad she is far far away.
My mother was an untreated bipolar when I was a kid. A lot of people think that bipolars are just happy when they are manic but nothing is further from the truth. They are aggresive, mean and violent and that's how she was when she was manic. I won't even talk about her depressions when she would sit on my bed with a gun to her head. Couple that with a violent, explosive father and in reality I think I am lucky I'm alive.
That's how I grew up.While no one can ever say "I know EXACTLY how you feel" I do empathize with you and I'm glad you feel a measure of peace.
It's a long long road to get there, that I do know.
As I've said before, thank you for sharing your experiences, they do help others (me!) a lot.
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