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a little explanation on 'the enemy'

Posted by milly on January 21, 2006, at 13:57:52

This man was my 'boss' and persecuted me for about a year before I was found crying in the broom cupboard unable to move.
I was stupid and nieave and every time i would 'forgive' or just think 'he's having a bad day' and blame myself.
I don't think I recognised what he was doing until about 6 months had gone by and then he started to get serious, fictitious dicsiplinary action, un-nerving mind games, removing any authority I had, over-riding my decisions plus loads more.
Finally, I think I was ill by now but I didn't know it, I thought I was on a mission from God to expose him and restore humanity to the whole of the universe etc etc, did some very rash stuff and was rather paranoid by now!! (not helped by him employing my collegue to report back on my every move)Then I 'crashed' became extremely suicidal and unable to work. That was May 05 and it has taken this long toget back on site. I am no longer employed there but it was the school where my oldest 3 girls go and Thursday was a parents consultation and it was the first time I had felt able to go to anything.I have been on site in the car with hubby but threw up!! and then 2 weeks ago I had to pick up the girls as hubby not available and we had a rather stressful time as I was really fighting the urge to run him over!
However it appears his hatred of me stems from a couple of things but one may well be some damaging information I became aware of about him, but now I'm getting better and able to think a little straighter I have put it in the hands of social services and the police, so his intimidation hasn't worked anyway!!
Milly

 

Re: a little explanation on 'the enemy' » milly

Posted by fairywings on January 21, 2006, at 15:02:36

In reply to a little explanation on 'the enemy', posted by milly on January 21, 2006, at 13:57:52

i'm so sorry you were so hurt milly. unbelieveable that someone could try to destroy you like he did. it's just so beyond me. did the situation with him make you ill, or did you already have some underlying illness and he pushed you over the edge? i'm glad you've been able to come as far as you have, and i hope he doesn't have anything to do with you or your daughters ever again.

fw

 

Re: a little explanation on 'the enemy' » fairywings

Posted by milly on January 21, 2006, at 16:20:57

In reply to Re: a little explanation on 'the enemy' » milly, posted by fairywings on January 21, 2006, at 15:02:36

Well I had never managed to need a psychiatrist before but there had been episodes of depression post-natally and at other times, and it was astanding joke that when I got fixated on something everything else went out of the window including sleep, and the things I got fixated on weren't often acheivable but those times I didn't need intervention. However I directly blame this episode on the stress from this situation, but who knows
milly

 

Re: a little explanation on 'the enemy' » milly

Posted by Poet on January 21, 2006, at 16:56:48

In reply to Re: a little explanation on 'the enemy' » fairywings, posted by milly on January 21, 2006, at 16:20:57

Hi Milly,

It sounds to me like *the enemy* pushed you to the breaking point. Too much stress and you just couldn't take anymore.

<< However it appears his hatred of me stems from a couple of things but one may well be some damaging information I became aware of about him, but now I'm getting better and able to think a little straighter I have put it in the hands of social services and the police, so his intimidation hasn't worked anyway!!

That's whose hands it should be in. Hopefully they will do something about it. Good for you! Good for you, too, that you can put direct blame on the situation and not complete blame on yourself, too.

Take care.
Poet

 

Re: a little explanation on 'the enemy' » milly

Posted by fairywings on January 21, 2006, at 21:24:06

In reply to Re: a little explanation on 'the enemy' » fairywings, posted by milly on January 21, 2006, at 16:20:57

That is very scary that someone can be so intent on destroying another person, I"m really sorry you went through all of that.

fw


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