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Posted by Dr. Bob on November 17, 2003, at 17:55:23
In reply to Therapist Ran...., posted by Still Hurting on November 17, 2003, at 11:23:18
> Question:- If a counselor's first reaction is to terminate a client when he/she learns of their transference towards them; would you say they ran in fear of their own love for that client?
> Or is termination the normal for a client who has crossed borders?
Posted by fallsfall on November 17, 2003, at 22:40:37
In reply to Therapist Ran.... « Still Hurting, posted by Dr. Bob on November 17, 2003, at 17:55:23
It is not crossing boundaries to love your therapist, nor to tell them that you love them. It is only crossing boundaries if you DO something about it (Pitch a tent in their front yard. Tell their wife that they will be divorcing her for you. Physically attack him in his office. etc.)
A therapist should help you understand your feelings of love - not terminate you.
Posted by Dinah on November 18, 2003, at 10:14:11
In reply to Therapist Ran.... « Still Hurting, posted by Dr. Bob on November 17, 2003, at 17:55:23
You don't need to order the video. It doesn't add a lot to the description. But read the description and you'll find a lot of answers.
http://www.apa.org/videos/4310570.html?CFID=2493388&CFTOKEN=89863392
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