Psycho-Babble Administration Thread 955493

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Re: please be civil » europerep

Posted by Dr. Bob on July 22, 2010, at 17:59:46

In reply to Re: Lou's reply-nhvrehyghn, posted by europerep on July 18, 2010, at 15:16:28

> I personally consider that a lot of what you say does not represent useful and respectful contribution to this board

Please don't post anything that could lead others to feel accused or put down.

But please don't take this personally, either, this doesn't mean I don't like you or think you're a bad person, and I'm sorry if this hurts you.

It's up to you to decide whom you interact with. Sometimes interacting with others may be frustrating, staying civil may be a challenge, and new skills may be required. If you're open to developing new skills (which I realize may not be why you came in the first place), that's another way in which you may be supported by other posters.

More information about posting policies and tips on alternative ways to express yourself, including a link to a nice post by Dinah on I-statements, are in the FAQ:

http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#civil
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#enforce

Lou, I'm also sorry if you felt hurt.

Follow-ups regarding these issues should be redirected to Psycho-Babble Administration. They, as well as replies to the above post, should of course themselves be civil.

Thanks,

Bob

 

Lou's response-nhevurehyghen » Dr. Bob

Posted by Lou Pilder on July 22, 2010, at 17:59:46

In reply to Re: please be civil » europerep, posted by Dr. Bob on July 19, 2010, at 14:29:43

> > I personally consider that a lot of what you say does not represent useful and respectful contribution to this board
>
> Please don't post anything that could lead others to feel accused or put down.
>
> But please don't take this personally, either, this doesn't mean I don't like you or think you're a bad person, and I'm sorry if this hurts you.
>
> It's up to you to decide whom you interact with. Sometimes interacting with others may be frustrating, staying civil may be a challenge, and new skills may be required. If you're open to developing new skills (which I realize may not be why you came in the first place), that's another way in which you may be supported by other posters.
>
> More information about posting policies and tips on alternative ways to express yourself, including a link to a nice post by Dinah on I-statements, are in the FAQ:
>
> http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#civil
> http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#enforce
>
> Lou, I'm also sorry if you felt hurt.
>
> Follow-ups regarding these issues should be redirected to Psycho-Babble Administration. They, as well as replies to the above post, should of course themselves be civil.
>
> Thanks,
>
> Bob

Mr. Hsiung,
You wrote.[...Lou, I'm also sorry if you felt hurt...].
I am (redacted by respondent), but please from now on know that I am requesting that the statement in question here about you feeling sorry not be posted where the person is myself being the recipiant of those type of statements.
You see, you have drafted your rules here to allow an antisemitic statement to be OK. But OK could or could not mean that the statement is supportive. If others think that the antisemitic statement in question is considerd supportive by you, then they also IMO could think that it is good for the community as aa whole to post such for your TOS states that youdo what you think will be good for community as a whole.
Now if members are to also trust you, then we have the following situation that IMO could continue and that I could be subject to being a victim of antisemitic violence, beiing it physical or emotional/psychological.
I am requesting that you post in the thread in question that you will find in the following links to posts that also have links to other posts.
Lou PIlder
here are the links to the posts in question where my request to you is outstanding to post in the thread in question as to if you are considering the antiseitic statement to be supportive or not. I think that if you do make my outstanding request not outstanding, then that IMO could go a long way in relieving my distress that I am experiancing from the fact that the antisemitic statemennt does not have your explanation in the thread where it is posted as I am requesting as to if you consider the statement supportive or not.
Lou PIlder
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20100714/msgs/955108.html

 

Lou's reminder-psubpoartiv?

Posted by Lou Pilder on July 4, 2012, at 7:10:40

In reply to Lou's response-nhevurehyghen » Dr. Bob, posted by Lou Pilder on July 22, 2010, at 17:59:46

> > > I personally consider that a lot of what you say does not represent useful and respectful contribution to this board
> >
> > Please don't post anything that could lead others to feel accused or put down.
> >
> > But please don't take this personally, either, this doesn't mean I don't like you or think you're a bad person, and I'm sorry if this hurts you.
> >
> > It's up to you to decide whom you interact with. Sometimes interacting with others may be frustrating, staying civil may be a challenge, and new skills may be required. If you're open to developing new skills (which I realize may not be why you came in the first place), that's another way in which you may be supported by other posters.
> >
> > More information about posting policies and tips on alternative ways to express yourself, including a link to a nice post by Dinah on I-statements, are in the FAQ:
> >
> > http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#civil
> > http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#enforce
> >
> > Lou, I'm also sorry if you felt hurt.
> >
> > Follow-ups regarding these issues should be redirected to Psycho-Babble Administration. They, as well as replies to the above post, should of course themselves be civil.
> >
> > Thanks,
> >
> > Bob
>
> Mr. Hsiung,
> You wrote.[...Lou, I'm also sorry if you felt hurt...].
> I am (redacted by respondent), but please from now on know that I am requesting that the statement in question here about you feeling sorry not be posted where the person is myself being the recipiant of those type of statements.
> You see, you have drafted your rules here to allow an antisemitic statement to be OK. But OK could or could not mean that the statement is supportive. If others think that the antisemitic statement in question is considerd supportive by you, then they also IMO could think that it is good for the community as aa whole to post such for your TOS states that youdo what you think will be good for community as a whole.
> Now if members are to also trust you, then we have the following situation that IMO could continue and that I could be subject to being a victim of antisemitic violence, beiing it physical or emotional/psychological.
> I am requesting that you post in the thread in question that you will find in the following links to posts that also have links to other posts.
> Lou PIlder
> here are the links to the posts in question where my request to you is outstanding to post in the thread in question as to if you are considering the antiseitic statement to be supportive or not. I think that if you do make my outstanding request not outstanding, then that IMO could go a long way in relieving my distress that I am experiancing from the fact that the antisemitic statemennt does not have your explanation in the thread where it is posted as I am requesting as to if you consider the statement supportive or not.
> Lou PIlder
> http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20100714/msgs/955108.html

Mr. Hsiung,
In regards to your reminder provision, there are outstanding requests in the above from me.
Lou Pilder

 

: Lou's reminder-psubpoartiv?

Posted by Lou Pilder on February 12, 2013, at 13:32:09

In reply to Lou's reminder-psubpoartiv?, posted by Lou Pilder on July 4, 2012, at 7:10:40

> > > > I personally consider that a lot of what you say does not represent useful and respectful contribution to this board
> > >
> > > Please don't post anything that could lead others to feel accused or put down.
> > >
> > > But please don't take this personally, either, this doesn't mean I don't like you or think you're a bad person, and I'm sorry if this hurts you.
> > >
> > > It's up to you to decide whom you interact with. Sometimes interacting with others may be frustrating, staying civil may be a challenge, and new skills may be required. If you're open to developing new skills (which I realize may not be why you came in the first place), that's another way in which you may be supported by other posters.
> > >
> > > More information about posting policies and tips on alternative ways to express yourself, including a link to a nice post by Dinah on I-statements, are in the FAQ:
> > >
> > > http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#civil
> > > http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#enforce
> > >
> > > Lou, I'm also sorry if you felt hurt.
> > >
> > > Follow-ups regarding these issues should be redirected to Psycho-Babble Administration. They, as well as replies to the above post, should of course themselves be civil.
> > >
> > > Thanks,
> > >
> > > Bob
> >
> > Mr. Hsiung,
> > You wrote.[...Lou, I'm also sorry if you felt hurt...].
> > I am (redacted by respondent), but please from now on know that I am requesting that the statement in question here about you feeling sorry not be posted where the person is myself being the recipiant of those type of statements.
> > You see, you have drafted your rules here to allow an antisemitic statement to be OK. But OK could or could not mean that the statement is supportive. If others think that the antisemitic statement in question is considerd supportive by you, then they also IMO could think that it is good for the community as aa whole to post such for your TOS states that youdo what you think will be good for community as a whole.
> > Now if members are to also trust you, then we have the following situation that IMO could continue and that I could be subject to being a victim of antisemitic violence, beiing it physical or emotional/psychological.
> > I am requesting that you post in the thread in question that you will find in the following links to posts that also have links to other posts.
> > Lou PIlder
> > here are the links to the posts in question where my request to you is outstanding to post in the thread in question as to if you are considering the antiseitic statement to be supportive or not. I think that if you do make my outstanding request not outstanding, then that IMO could go a long way in relieving my distress that I am experiancing from the fact that the antisemitic statemennt does not have your explanation in the thread where it is posted as I am requesting as to if you consider the statement supportive or not.
> > Lou PIlder
> > http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20100714/msgs/955108.html
>
> Mr. Hsiung,
> In regards to your reminder provision, there are outstanding requests in the above from me.
> Lou Pilder

Mr Hsiung,'
In regards to your reminder policy, the above.
Lou Pilder


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