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Posted by Atticus on December 7, 2004, at 12:55:27
In reply to Lou's response to Atticus's post- » Atticus, posted by Lou Pilder on December 7, 2004, at 10:26:16
Lou,
You're intertwining two separate posts here. I really just tossed in Falwell v. Hustler as an additional example of how opinion speech was protected, even if it was satire. Satire is typically so outrageous that a "reasonable person" wouldn't mistake it for factual accusations. This is essentially the argument that won the day for Larry Flynt. Falwell's status as an "all-purpose public figure" did mean he would have to prove "actual malice" rather than merely "negligence" -- and actual malice (deliberately publishing something with knowledge that it is untrue or with "reckless disregard for the truth") is indeed a much higher hurdle for a plaintiff to clear. But that really wasn't a major factor in the justices' opinions. Satirists readily acknowledge that their work isn't factually true -- it is over-the-top hyperbole deliberately meant to sting the subject. I was a professional editorial cartoonist for a newspaper with a circulation of about 70,000 for years as a side job, and I DID mean to make people laugh at the politicians or social positions I lampooned. But PB certainly is not a forum for satire in any case. Forget I brought it up, alright? It's not really relevant here. Atticus
Posted by Atticus on December 7, 2004, at 14:18:31
In reply to Lou's response to Atticus's post- » Atticus, posted by Lou Pilder on December 7, 2004, at 11:24:02
Nope, sorry, Lou, libel law just doesn’t work that way. It wouldn’t matter if the derogatory words appeared on an Internet mental-health forum or tumbled from the lips of Bill O’Reilly. Libel is about whether a published statement is TRUE and believable to readers – and if it turns out to be untrue, what were the mitigating circumstances under which the error occurred. It is NOT about words that merely might hurt feelings. Never was, and never will be. Any libel case where the plaintiff is nonplussed over being called an “idiot” or a “fruitcake” is going nowhere fast – no matter how upset the plaintiff is. The judge would give the jury specific instructions as to what constitutes libel and what does not. Sympathetic or not, the members of that jury are bound by law to follow those instructions, or else you end up with a mistrial or strong grounds for an appeal. Unless a “reasonable person” might actually be led to believe by the published work that the person being ridiculed is ACTUALLY a “fruitcake” or is GENUINELY a “pig eater,” you just don’t have a case. You wouldn’t even have a case if someone used that most reprehensible of terms, n****r, to describe an African-American. Name-calling, no matter how vile, doesn’t add up to libel.
All that said, my explanation of libel law was only meant to answer your query about what constitutes libel in the first place, since a number of people here seemed confused regarding the issue. It really has little to do with this site. Dr. Bob HAS made name-calling an offense here, as is his right. I do think he gets carried away with the “profanity” thing (I mean, seriously, “fr*g” is considered profane ?! We used to say that in fourth grade). But he and I hashed that out a while back, and the discussion ended with the classic “Bobism”: “Let’s agree to disagree.”
Which kind of spontaneously leads me to toss out this question to everyone for the fun of it: What’s your favorite Bobism? We could collect them into an online thread on Social called “The Book of Bob.” Atticus
Posted by Toph on December 7, 2004, at 15:21:07
In reply to Re: Lou's response to Atticus's post- » Lou Pilder, posted by Atticus on December 7, 2004, at 14:18:31
> What’s your favorite Bobism? We could collect them into an online thread on Social called “The Book of Bob.” Atticus
>Can Bob's deferring to another person an explanation the rational for his actions be a Bobism, Atticus? If so, anything by Haim Weinberg is a Bobism.
Posted by alexandra_k on December 7, 2004, at 18:17:08
In reply to Re: Lou's response to Atticus's post- » Lou Pilder, posted by Atticus on December 7, 2004, at 14:18:31
>and the discussion ended with the classic “Bobism”: “Let’s agree to disagree.” Which kind of spontaneously leads me to toss out this question to everyone for the fun of it: What’s your favorite Bobism? We could collect them into an online thread on Social called “The Book of Bob.” Atticus
Oh Atticus, you are not allowed to be blocked ever again because you are just too funny! My favourite at the moment is:
'technology is not always the answer'
- though that might not be an exact quote, and I think maybe it is the context or my warped sense of humour that makes that one funny really :-)
Posted by Gabbix2 on December 7, 2004, at 19:13:30
In reply to The Book of Bob » Atticus, posted by alexandra_k on December 7, 2004, at 18:17:08
My favorite (Thanks Zen)
Please don't accuse anyone here of causing millions to die.
Posted by Jai Narayan on December 7, 2004, at 21:35:36
In reply to Re: Lou's response to Atticus's post- » Lou Pilder, posted by Atticus on December 7, 2004, at 14:18:31
Once upon a time in a far away country there lived a child who took everything literally.
He was named Bob....
even as a child everyone called him Dr. Bob.
He was a sweet child.
He loved to sit on the gray sidewalk during the day and watch the ants.
If he got bored he would move to his second favorite thing and that was watching the bees.
Next the birds.
Then the stars.
He was always looking.
One day he discovered a box.
It was square and had a long chord.
He took the cord and plugged it into the wall.
Worlds opened up for him.
He was stunned and couldn't look away.
His mother tried to tempt him with delicious food she cooked.
His father offered to play baseball with him.
He could barely answer his parents and they tried to pull him away from the awful box.
Their attempts were futile.
Soon his life was only the box and all the little lines written all over the surface.
He had no real friends.
He only communicated with these virtual people inside the box.
His parents wanted to take him to their family doctor.
But Bob said no.
No I am the doctor.
His parents were gentle people.
They eased away from this little boy who would not leave the box and would not get help.Atticus is this the story you are talking about?
Jai
Posted by Atticus on December 7, 2004, at 22:43:04
In reply to Re: Bob » Atticus, posted by Toph on December 7, 2004, at 15:21:07
Hi Toph,
I'd think so. I've been treated to a Haim Weinberg reference personally. So it's fair to say that a particular way of responding to someone's post without really responding to the post is Bobistic. ;) Atticus
Posted by Atticus on December 7, 2004, at 22:48:55
In reply to Re: The Book of Bob » alexandra_k, posted by Gabbix2 on December 7, 2004, at 19:13:30
LOL. I missed that one! Did Pol Pot used to be a Babbler or something? ;) Atticus
Posted by Atticus on December 7, 2004, at 22:59:49
In reply to I wonda wonda who...WHO wrote the book of Bob?, posted by Jai Narayan on December 7, 2004, at 21:35:36
I'd best refrain from comment on that story. Too many straight lines that could spark a snarky refrain. :) But both you and Susan47 HAVE been punished by Dr. Bob for not covering your "@ss". This leads me to think of the ubiquitous Bobism that begins something like, "I hate to be a prude, but ..." Ta. ;) Atticus, skating on thin ice as usual and groovin' on it
Posted by Dr. Bob on December 7, 2004, at 23:50:18
In reply to Re: Lou's response to Atticus's post- » Lou Pilder, posted by Atticus on December 7, 2004, at 14:18:31
> Would I be able to turn the automatic censor off and continue to handle the insertion of asterisks myself?
Sure, but then you wouldn't get any warnings:
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20041109/msgs/425592.html
> What’s your favorite Bobism? We could collect them into an online thread on Social called “The Book of Bob.”
A sequel, maybe, to:
The Bob Book
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0440503124/drbobsvirte00-20Bob
Posted by Atticus on December 8, 2004, at 0:02:16
In reply to Re: automatic asterisking, posted by Dr. Bob on December 7, 2004, at 23:50:18
OK, I can live with that. Speaking of "profanity," I just noticed that Phil has become yet another casualty of your war on "@ss"ing, over on PB Writing. Jai, Susan47, now Phil. Will this carnage never end? Oh, the humanity! ;) Atticus
Posted by Atticus on December 8, 2004, at 0:23:36
In reply to The Book of Bob » Atticus, posted by alexandra_k on December 7, 2004, at 18:17:08
Hi Alex,
"Technology is not always the answer"?! Well, b*llocks. There goes my plan to replace Dr. Bob with an android who curses like a sailor. But perhaps I've been too harsh on his War On "@ss"ing. The ability to resist using the word "@ss" is all that separates us from the lower animals. With chimps, it's just "@ss this" and "@ss that." Next thing you know, they're hurling their own feces at innocent zoo-goers. "@ss" is clearly a "gateway" to more serious lapses in civility. Or something. ;) Atticus
Posted by alexandra_k on December 8, 2004, at 0:40:08
In reply to Re: The Book of Bob » alexandra_k, posted by Atticus on December 8, 2004, at 0:23:36
Pleased to meet you Atticus, not sure whether we've really met properly before :-)
Posted by All Done on December 8, 2004, at 0:56:28
In reply to I wonda wonda who...WHO wrote the book of Bob?, posted by Jai Narayan on December 7, 2004, at 21:35:36
> He could barely answer his parents and they tried to pull him away from the awful box.
> Their attempts were futile.
> Soon his life was only the box and all the little lines written all over the surface.
> He had no real friends.
> He only communicated with these virtual people inside the box.
> His parents wanted to take him to their family doctor.Jai,
Perhaps I'm in the minority here, but this bothers me a bit. I don't know if I would say it is uncivil, but at the very least it doesn't feel supportive, IMO. Now, I suppose we can all assume Dr. Bob is not here for support, but how do we ever really know why any poster is here and aren't we are expected to be supportive of everyone? If this was written about any other poster, would it have been acceptable? (Maybe Dr. Bob could answer that?)
Dr. Bob seems to be somewhat forgiving of attacks on him and to some degree, I suppose he has to be since this board is, in part, for challenging his decisions. To me, though, this feels more personal than "admin".
Jai, I love to read your posts and I hope I have not offended you. Maybe I just have a stick up my @ss.
Laurie
Posted by Atticus on December 8, 2004, at 9:29:56
In reply to oh, he he he » Atticus, posted by alexandra_k on December 8, 2004, at 0:40:08
I can't remember if we've "properly" met either. But in case we haven't, the pleasure's all mine. Ta. ;) Atticus
Posted by alexandra_k on December 8, 2004, at 13:11:24
In reply to Re: I wonda wonda who...WHO wrote the book of Bob? » Jai Narayan, posted by All Done on December 8, 2004, at 0:56:28
I liked it very much. I didn't think it was disrespectful.
It reminds me of the young Jung with his rock
'am I sitting on the rock or is someone sitting on me'.
Thats what you get from reading too many 'beginners guides to _____'
Posted by TofuEmmy on December 8, 2004, at 19:00:36
In reply to I wonda wonda who...WHO wrote the book of Bob?, posted by Jai Narayan on December 7, 2004, at 21:35:36
Wow and ouch. I thought me calling him a troll was pretty stinky, but this is....[insert PBC here].
IMO - Using pretty words to say cruel things does not make them any less cruel.
emmy
Posted by alexandra_k on December 8, 2004, at 19:21:47
In reply to Re: I wonda wonda who...WHO wrote the book of Bob? » Jai Narayan, posted by TofuEmmy on December 8, 2004, at 19:00:36
I thought it portrayed him as sweet and curious - there was an undertone of warning about the dangerously addictive nature of computing... but I didn't take it to be cruel at all.
I do agree, however, that it would be inappropriate to speculate about the childhood of the average poster here (unless you were sure they could appreciate your intentions) - but Dr. Bob is nearer the healthy end of the spectrum so I am sure he can handle it!
Posted by All Done on December 9, 2004, at 1:23:25
In reply to Re: I wonda wonda who...WHO wrote the book of Bob? » TofuEmmy, posted by alexandra_k on December 8, 2004, at 19:21:47
> Dr. Bob is nearer the healthy end of the spectrum
He is?
Posted by alexandra_k on December 9, 2004, at 14:57:06
In reply to Re: I wonda wonda who...WHO wrote the book of Bob? » alexandra_k, posted by All Done on December 9, 2004, at 1:23:25
now now :-)
I figure that being a psychiatrist and all...
If you can't take the heat you shouldn't play with fire.
Posted by alexandra_k on December 9, 2004, at 14:57:47
In reply to Re: I wonda wonda who...WHO wrote the book of Bob? » All Done, posted by alexandra_k on December 9, 2004, at 14:57:06
Thanks!
Posted by All Done on December 9, 2004, at 15:44:33
In reply to Re: I wonda wonda who...WHO wrote the book of Bob? » All Done, posted by alexandra_k on December 9, 2004, at 14:57:06
> now now :-)
>
> I figure that being a psychiatrist and all...
> If you can't take the heat you shouldn't play with fire.Oh, I wasn't saying he is or isn't nearer the healthy end of the spectrum, Alexandra. My point is just that I don't know and I'm guessing, unless a poster has a personal relationship with Dr. Bob, that none of us know. Just as we don't know the level of mental illness, if there is any, of any given poster unless they have told us, which I don't believe Dr. Bob has (correct me if I'm wrong, though).
That said, I believe all posts should remain civil no matter who the post is directed to or about.
Kind of a moot point, though, since we don't agree on the civility of the original post. Sometimes I just like to hear myself think, I guess :).
Take care,
Laurie
Posted by Dr. Bob on December 9, 2004, at 17:13:37
In reply to Re: I wonda wonda who...WHO wrote the book of Bob? » All Done, posted by alexandra_k on December 9, 2004, at 14:57:06
> I figure that being a psychiatrist and all...
> If you can't take the heat you shouldn't play with fire.I encourage conflict, dissent, and negotiation across the leader-members boundary. I'd rather it didn't get *too* hot, of course...
Bob
Posted by alexandra_k on December 9, 2004, at 17:51:30
In reply to Re: being a psychiatrist and all, posted by Dr. Bob on December 9, 2004, at 17:13:37
'encourage' now, I thought you preferred 'accept'???!!
I thought it was playful teasing,
Not malice or cruel
Just MHO
I don't think Jai has a nasty bone in her body.:-)
Posted by All Done on December 10, 2004, at 0:25:13
In reply to Re: being a psychiatrist and all » Dr. Bob, posted by alexandra_k on December 9, 2004, at 17:51:30
> I don't think Jai has a nasty bone in her body.
Just to be clear, neither do I.I was just questioning the civility of her words. I wasn't judging her character or intent.
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