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Posted by rjlockhart on May 1, 2007, at 15:43:25
Ok first of all i want to apologize for any of my rampit behavior here on any of these posts.
But to get to the point, i have about near 7 friends that are close to me, and in the past i have had more but i scared, or pushed them away because i just dont have, well i act very socially "ediuquite" with people for periods of time then i let them know what personal stuff is going on, i need to just stop.
I think i just scared away a buddy of mine named Shelton.
I called him left a message, i cant keep stable relationships with people for long periods of time. Thats whats wrong.
I doubth he is going to call back, i dont expect him to, after what i left on the message about just home life. I spilled the beans about my frustrations with life.
I need to come here and vent them not to others because they will think im some unstable guy.
I still do have people, that are good christain friends that care and wont leave, but shelton i dont know, i thought he was my best buddy, now look what i have done.
Same thing here. Polerbear i am so sorry for doing that, i did that to one of my friends in the past, and it makes me miserable.
I AM 20 AND still have emotional problems that where not addressed when i was a teenager. You can even look back at what i have posted over the years.
I need to see someone that will listen. People in society dont care about other people's problems.
At least i have some people here that are my friends?
I thought i was making it and getting better than just one danm phone call spoiled it all! omg
I need this board's support, and i am sorry to phillipa, polerbear, intrepid, any of yall's advice was good and neccessary i have a bad habit of just thinking what "i" think is best, thats not true, i always get screwed.
Help, please anyone, like i feel i have scared off people like larry hoover, paul, spriggy, zenhuzzy, others on this board.
Phillipa thank you for at least awnsering my posts.
I am really having bad emotional and social issues i need to work on.
Posted by Phillipa on May 1, 2007, at 16:32:38
In reply to You guys i need some social advice - im losing fri, posted by rjlockhart on May 1, 2007, at 15:43:25
Matt I know. Love Phillipa
Posted by polarbear206 on May 1, 2007, at 16:39:17
In reply to You guys i need some social advice - im losing fri, posted by rjlockhart on May 1, 2007, at 15:43:25
> Ok first of all i want to apologize for any of my rampit behavior here on any of these posts.
>
> But to get to the point, i have about near 7 friends that are close to me, and in the past i have had more but i scared, or pushed them away because i just dont have, well i act very socially "ediuquite" with people for periods of time then i let them know what personal stuff is going on, i need to just stop.
>
> I think i just scared away a buddy of mine named Shelton.
>
> I called him left a message, i cant keep stable relationships with people for long periods of time. Thats whats wrong.
>
> I doubth he is going to call back, i dont expect him to, after what i left on the message about just home life. I spilled the beans about my frustrations with life.
>
> I need to come here and vent them not to others because they will think im some unstable guy.
>
> I still do have people, that are good christain friends that care and wont leave, but shelton i dont know, i thought he was my best buddy, now look what i have done.
>
> Same thing here. Polerbear i am so sorry for doing that, i did that to one of my friends in the past, and it makes me miserable.
>
> I AM 20 AND still have emotional problems that where not addressed when i was a teenager. You can even look back at what i have posted over the years.
>
> I need to see someone that will listen. People in society dont care about other people's problems.
>
> At least i have some people here that are my friends?
>
> I thought i was making it and getting better than just one danm phone call spoiled it all! omg
>
> I need this board's support, and i am sorry to phillipa, polerbear, intrepid, any of yall's advice was good and neccessary i have a bad habit of just thinking what "i" think is best, thats not true, i always get screwed.
>
> Help, please anyone, like i feel i have scared off people like larry hoover, paul, spriggy, zenhuzzy, others on this board.
>
> Phillipa thank you for at least awnsering my posts.
>
> I am really having bad emotional and social issues i need to work on.
>
>
Mat,The most important thing right now is taking care of yourself. When you get stable on a new med regime, THEN you will be able to deal head on with other issues going on in your life and in the past. Keep yourself surrounded by people who are a positive influence. Love yourself most of all and know that things WILL get better.
Polarbear
Posted by Cynthia_Greene on May 1, 2007, at 17:41:12
In reply to Re: You guys i need some social advice - im losing fri » rjlockhart, posted by polarbear206 on May 1, 2007, at 16:39:17
Don't stress out about it. For now, you might not be able to completely take back that phone call, but you can eventually try calling him back and doing as much damage control as possible. If he's a decent guy, he'll understand and still want to be friends with you.
It's really hard to find close friends to talk to about serious stuff. People are selfish these days and too uncomfortable hearing about other people's problems. I have several friends, but I feel uncomfortable talking to most of them about my personal problems, just because I don't think they'll understand. You might want to check into finding a support group in your area; you can make friends there that will have the same problems and who will listen to you.
Posted by rjlockhart on May 1, 2007, at 19:01:07
In reply to Re: You guys i need some social advice - im losing fri, posted by Cynthia_Greene on May 1, 2007, at 17:41:12
Phillipa thank you, and i am sorry, its not a personal issue at all, about responding back, i just dont know what to say, i couple years ago i used to be so expressive back to what people said now its like im getting tired of Psychobabble.
Polerbear, i got your babblemail. Babblemailing you back. I have to go to church tonight, i will see shelton and his girlfriend there, i think he will eventually understand. I called him and told him about a fight i had with my parents.
Cynthia, shelton is well not my best friend but i think he will understand, but first of all you dont call your friend of buddy in like a crisis.
But thank you for your response.
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