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Re: charm

Posted by rjlockhart37 on January 7, 2020, at 22:26:26

In reply to Re: charm, posted by alexandra_k on January 6, 2020, at 0:22:41

yes, charm feels like a motive, flattery, charm, they can be used to flatter people. But i mean, there is natual flatter, but i don't think it should be called that. Like if someone really appriciates someone, and they tell that, and they really mean it, that is not flattery. When i was younger i used to look up to people in high school, or sports figures and be like a fan or something, charm or flattery doesn't seem to be a part of that, because your truly showing them your appreciation or how much you like them. Flattery is ... i have to say it is asskissing, its not real, its like lying to get something. Favors, charms, sometimes it can superficial. Over-compliment, to where it gets strange and weird, and starts to creep you out. I think who like or have a crush on someone, they repeatedly compliment, or over smile, and it gets to a point where it seems strange.

I've been flattered by motivational people, friends, there real upfront with giving supporting advice, and then the next day, or later on it's like they totally change, like switch or all of what they said was fake. They make you feel special for moment, then the horrible feeling when around them again and they act like they don't know you.

"There comes a time in your life where you have to choose to turn the page, write another book, or simply close it"
-Shannon L Alder




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