Psycho-Babble Social | for general support | Framed
This thread | Show all | Post follow-up | Start new thread | List of forums | Search | FAQ

Re: Hard time attracting women...anyone?

Posted by baseball55 on July 30, 2017, at 18:15:31

In reply to Hard time attracting women...anyone?, posted by Jay_OriginalOne on July 30, 2017, at 10:54:18

I expect by no drama, people mean no crazy tantrums, fights, suicide attempts, etc. There are people who "create" drama - or maybe chaos is a better word - in relationships. People with substance abuse problems (stealing money, overdosing, flying into rages), BPD (flying into rages, unreasonable jealousy, etc.), other personality disorders. My mother-in-law had what I like to call (but which the DSM no longer cites) histrionic personality disorder - all she did was create drama, manipulate people, cry, throw tantrums, endless self-pity and overall craziness. So unless you are like this, then you can honestly call yourself drama-free.

The other issue though is more complicated. I've never done internet dating sites, but it seems like people can automatically reject you based on specified criteria - no job, no. Takes meds, no.

Maybe a better way to meet women is to do some kind of volunteer or community projects where people get to know you first as you, rather than as a check-list.

But I was married for 37 years and am now happily single. I've never really been in the dating game in my life. So what do I know?

Good luck to you. Hope other people have constructive suggestions.




Post a new follow-up

Your message only Include above post

Notify the administrators

They will then review this post with the posting guidelines in mind.

To contact them about something other than this post, please use this form instead.


Start a new thread

Google www
Search options and examples
[amazon] for

This thread | Show all | Post follow-up | Start new thread | FAQ
Psycho-Babble Social | Framed

poster:baseball55 thread:1094261