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Re: Divorced » SLS

Posted by ClearSkies on October 27, 2015, at 15:11:29

In reply to Re: Divorced, posted by SLS on October 27, 2015, at 0:59:02

I didn't know what to expect. I didn't want to have any anticipations. I was surprised at the rage and dislike that radiated off of my ex in the courtroom. I felt threatened and overwhelmingly sad.

At each break, I sobbed and hyperventilated from the effort to remain passive and neutral in front of the judge - and my ex.

Mostly, his lack of compassion for those with memtal illness and the "snap out of it" attitude that suffused our marriage permeated my memories. I was retraumatised by the process.

So to have that vision of leaving ruins behind me was extremely comforting. To know that I actually have shed an adversary.

Few good memories.


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