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Re: Why Is Babble Not Babbling? » violette

Posted by Dinah on August 3, 2010, at 8:52:17

In reply to Re: Why Is Babble Not Babbling? » Dinah, posted by violette on August 2, 2010, at 22:22:00

> That is likely true, Dinah. I do feel that even if I am 'hearing it more' than intended, or happen to be more vigilant about such concepts, that it is still not healthy to continously point out to people that they should express themself like another particular person...

Liking something someone said and quoting it is not the same as wanting other people to express themselves the same way. I don't really see it as the same thing at all. I am not saying it can't be annoying. My husband probably wants to scream whenever I say "My therapist says...." But I'm not saying I want my husband to be like my therapist or express himself like my therapist. I just find something to the point in something my therapist said. It's even more clear if I quote my mother, which I often do.

> I pictured Ron as someone hurting inside, who needed to be heard and understood.

I doubt any of us would be here if we weren't hurting inside, and needing to be heard, understood, and treated with respect.

> Still, I'd like to see people have the opportunity be heard and understood.

Posters do have the opportunity in their original posts. They have another opportunity in response to Dr. Bob's request. The way they use that opportunity determines whether they will have the opportunity in the next period of time. When they return, they again have the opportunity, and it's up to them how they use it and how long they have the opportunity.

 

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