Posted by TexasChic on July 14, 2009, at 20:54:36
In reply to Been wonderin' what TexasChic thinks?;-), posted by Jay_Bravest_Face on July 14, 2009, at 12:56:05
> Ohhh I am terrible. Putting her on the hot seat...she'll likely slap me very hard...heh. She will give a whole new meaning to "Brutal" honesty...hehee. I am ready for my torture....:)
I would never do that! Actually, I refrained from posting because I am SO not the person to ask about dating advice! I'm a total introvert and never date! As for your pic, I thought you looked very cute and sweet. But as others have said, a bit of a smile might help. Keep in mind girls on these dating sites are already intimidated by the fact that you're an unknown man on the internet. You hear so many horror stories about stuff like that. So they're looking at your pic thinking, "Okay, does this complete stranger look like a nice guy?" It may not be reasonable to think this way, but I guarantee that's what they're thinking. And psychologically, someone not smiling = someone not nice.
So that's my not so expert advice - since you called me out!!! :-)
I hope you have good luck with this. Maybe someday I'll have enough guts to put myself out there like that. For the time being, you're way ahead of me in that respect!