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Re: Chick magnet.... » DG77

Posted by SLS on February 18, 2009, at 11:05:54

In reply to Re: Chick magnet...., posted by DG77 on February 17, 2009, at 15:11:21

> If flirting with women is wrong, I don't want to be right...lol.

Woohoo! I couldn't stop, even if I wanted to.

> know what you mean, though, Scott. Correct me if I'm wrong, but I
think you're mostly referring to the "trying too hard" part.

Yes. That's it exactly, and I think it shows and probably is a turn-off.

> After all, you can still be yourself and flirt.

Woohoo! (again).

I love women. I guess that would probably show on its own without trying too hard.

> As for starting things off with flirting vs friendship, I'm not sure either is "wrong". Who's to say that a relationship that starts out as a flirtation doesn't continue to have that flirtation at its core for years and years? Even though they predate me by a few decades (yes I had to specify that...lol), the "Thin Man" movies come to mind as an illustration of a couple who don't let the fact that they're married to each other keep them from flirting as if they'd just met. It doesn't happen that way in real life nearly as often as it should, but it does happen. :)

My greatest love started out as a flirtation . We became friends first. Eventually, I found depth in her and a whole bunch of stuff inside her that appealed to me and that drew me closer to her. I found her inside more attractive to me than her outside at first. Eventually, she became the most beautiful woman in the world. I fell in love with her after first knowing her for 9 months and without ever having had thoughts of romance. When she finally opened up to me, I was mush. I wanted to grow old with this woman, and I swear that I would have died for her. Our strong feelings for each other were mutual, and it showed. At a restaurant, we could not keep our eyes off each other. Sometimes, when I looked around, I would catch someone watching us with a smile on their face. It was real, and it never got old.

What happened you ask?

I'll leave that part of the story for another day.


- Scott

 

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