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Re: Do I,Don`t I. I don`t konw ? » daveuk08

Posted by Jay_Bravest_Face on August 14, 2008, at 15:44:59

In reply to Do I,Don`t I. I don`t konw ?, posted by daveuk08 on August 14, 2008, at 4:22:00

Hi Dave:

First off....if you don't mind...gentle cyber-hugs ((((((Daveuk08))))))). (Yes. men can do this stuff too..:) I empathize with you with some similarity. I've been stuck in "grief" for about 14 or so years now, and I really wonder what the hell is going on!? (I had a couple of losses of people closest to me.) But, everybody's "grief" is different, but I can spot the emotions. Just a few days ago I was going through a really bad spell, and you can see it on here. Freud said that depression is a form of prolonged grief, as we only have so much time here ourselves, and obviously harder watching people we love die.

You know what I think may help you also a bit (as it did me...a bit anyways)..is to find someone in person to talk to. Can you get a referral from your doctor to some kind of counselor or something? I know it sounds like nothing, but it helps just to get the words out of your mouth and have somebody hear and respond to them.
I know that feeling of not wanting to carry on, because the pain, the aches, are all too much.
I REALLY wish I could say that there was "this particular med" that would help, but I can't really say. Just that, sometimes bad days go away eventually, for a short time, even if they never completely leave you. My thoughts are with you.....

Take good care of yourself...
Jay


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