Posted by Kath on February 19, 2008, at 14:18:06
In reply to Am I normal or do I have problems with sex?, posted by Deneb on February 19, 2008, at 0:06:25
I don't think you're being a prude Deneb.
Sexuality is SUCH an individual thing.
Please don't judge yourself harshly. I think that being 'true to oneself' is especially important in the area of sex.
I don't find it at ALL unusual to have a long-term-relationship as a prerequisite for sex. Let's face it - although it might not be common any more, I bet there are folks who wait to have sex until after they're married. (Or maybe not anymore, but I bet a few do.)
For me, emotional safety & emotional comfortableness has to be a part of having sex with a man.
I don't think I've ever been turned on unless there's been a good solid emotional basis (not that I've had many partners). Now, I DO find certain males attractive & sexy (as in say Johnny Depp - I know - for me he's a baby, but I still find him att. & s.)
So on that group you mentioned, are there guys who are also asexual? Does asexual mean not interested in sex?
Please continue to honour your own values & needs Deneb.
luv, Kath
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