Posted by TexasChic on October 30, 2007, at 20:05:01
In reply to help, posted by Ashlynn99 on October 24, 2007, at 17:00:19
• Together with someone on and off for 11 years... now engaged another man
• moved to a different state... homesick
• hate job
• gained 20 lbs
• just quit smokingThat's a LOT of changes going on at once, you have every right to feel overwhelmed! Allow yourself to feel these things, they are legitimate. Then take them one at a time and decide what you can do to change things for the better. Next take the steps to change what you can, one at a time (don't put too much pressure on yourself, its a lot of stuff!). From my personal experience, having a job you hate can make your whole life miserable. Just changing that might make you feel a lot better. Also, do you have a therapist? A T can be very helpful in figuring this all out.
I hope this helps some. Keep us posted on how things are going!
-T
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