Posted by ClearSkies on September 13, 2007, at 7:48:02
In reply to Heartache in mind and soul :(, posted by Fivefires on September 12, 2007, at 23:40:32
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> How long is normal(?) to get over 13 years I wonder?
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> tks, 5f
>I don't think it's matter of getting over someone after such a long relationship. There's a period of grieving, that's different for each of us, that we have to go through. And it's hard to feel the void in our heart that's left without wanting desperately for someone else to fill it, but please give yourself time to heal. Maybe do some reading about the grief process (I can't think of anything immediately but can look up some stuff if you want.), or do some journaling about it.
Or write about your loss here. I think of babble as my diary, sometimes. (Not necessarily expecting a reply or The Answer to my prayers, but just a place to put my thoughts, to get them out of my head.) And for me, sometimes the writing itself is part of the process.
I'm not a night owl at all, any more. I take my Remeron and I sleep very quickly, so I'm off the boards when you're here. But we can leave notes for each other here...
Just for today, Fivefires, remind yourself that there are people here who care about you.
ClearSkies
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