Posted by MCK on May 2, 2007, at 22:34:29
In reply to oh dear yet again... » MCK, posted by karen_kay on May 2, 2007, at 19:32:14
Dear, and (perfectly sweet) Karen Kay
I didn't mean to sound cross. I understand those issues, which is why I probably couldn't offer any help. I too am obsessively scrutinizing my own motives, we are hindered I think a certain amount by biology, things we desire, reactions we desire.
I've arrived at the point where I believe as long as I'm constantly scrutinizing and learning, weighing out harm done and not adhering to concepts soley because they exist, then I'm doing as well as I can. That's all I would expect from anyone, but of course I'm not you, so it's probably easy for me to say. Besides, if I said any more things you may well propose to me and then I'd have to be the first to break your heart.