Posted by Kath on March 3, 2007, at 19:11:28
In reply to oh i forgot to mention (to kath continued) » alesta, posted by alesta on March 2, 2007, at 15:37:34
I'd say trust your instincts as to feeling safe!!
It's nice she apologized anyway.
I think finding a 'comfortable & healthy' - oh, and balanced - friendship can be hard.
I have a really good friend, who I feel very close to, but often it's "about her". She'll ask me "how are you?" but even under my current circumstances, she never says "How's .......(my son)?" and that sort of hurts me. Then I get teed off! Angry, but it's really from feeling hurt & having my feelings hurt that she doesn't ask about my son, when if her daughter wasn't well, I'd definitely ask.
Hope you're having a nice weekend.
:-) Kath
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